2007-03-22 08:57:13 · 15 answers · asked by norma H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell your husband to stop this kind of sh't from happening. its always hard to answer questions like these b/c i dont know you or your husband. given my ideals and background i wouldnt allow this type of thing to happen with me and i definitely wouldnt put up with it with my future wife. no man will be hanging on my woman and i wouldnt get with a woman that had that type of personality that she has guy friends. i dont do that kind of garbage. i dont have girl friends other than co workers or those ive known in high school and are distant 'say hello to when you see them' friends. i think you need to step up and smack your man in the head for allowing this. he's not giving you the respect of what is 'wife'. i would hope that you dont have guy friends and if you do, you surely have more respect for yourself than to have that friend or friends hang all over you. realistically, its flirting. come on, lets be honest, why do you need to hang all over someone of the opposite sex. you do that with your man or woman. you dont do that to friends. if they say we're just friends then ask him why you dont see him hanging all over his guy friends? or vice versa. friends dont do that sh't. kick this guy in the nuts for me one good time and set down the rules girl. dont allow this to go on.
2007-03-22 09:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by maximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell him how disrespectful is it of him to not say, "Hey I have a wife" to her. It doesn't have to be rude, but for him to just tell her would be a good thing.
Don't let her see that it bothers you either. Women prey on weakness & jealousy - if you ignore her and your husband lets her know that being all over him is wrong - things should be tolerable.
P.S. - I don't think you will ever "get along" with her.
2007-03-22 09:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why or how you are tolerating another woman being all over your husband. Does it bother you? If it does I would talk to him and tell him that it needs to stop. It is unacceptable. I wouldn't even try to get along with the woman. She should know that that sort of behavior is wrong.
2007-03-22 09:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why you want to get along with the biitch? Do yourself a favor right now without delay. Boot both their assses out the door. Doing it now will save you a lot of grief later on.
2007-03-22 09:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..give her the cowardly man outright..and keep the house and the vette for yourself babe. He can have the tramp all to himself darling...cause he deserves no ones attentions but her attentions otherwise...not yours! Your husband is a cad and a creep hun....and I'm kinda sorta concerned about you here too hun. No woman let's a man have a girl on the side hun...unless of course you have a guy on the side here yourself. So what is it darling?...what is the deal here anyways? Let us know hun....cause inquiring minds want to know!
2007-03-22 09:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt...I know that in a marriage, you can't be selfish...but there are some things that you MUST be selfish about...It's not a good thing for him to have close female friends...and they definately SHOULD NOT BE ALL OVER HIM!! Talk to him...Whoop his butt a couple times (JK)...just make sure he gets the picture that you are the only woman that should be all over him...
2007-03-22 09:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by emeia04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is hanging all over him, making suggestive remarks, etc...you should NOT try to get along with her. You should call her and tell her that you won't be putting up with that kind of s h i t and to get her own man! You should also tell you B/F to not see her outside of a group setting. If he makes a big deal about it, he may be already cheating with her anyway....
2007-03-22 09:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that b.it.ch - she is trouble only.
What type of s*lutty whor**e hangs all over a guy that she knows is married?
She is insulting you to your face. You better talk with your husband and have him put a stop to it. Right now he is testing to see how far you will let him go.
If it leads to sex - you should insist that they let you be there to see it - or join in as a threesome.
2007-03-22 09:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Cumjunkie Doner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, how are you treating your husband? Because the way you treat your husband will make him to look outside. So my advice is this, change your style.
2007-03-22 09:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM it bothers you, if he respects you and wants to be in a relationship with you, then your feelings will come first for him before this 'girl' friend. If he can't give her up or make her respect you and your position ---get rid of him, it will only lead to anger and hurt and nothing positive.
2007-03-22 09:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋