Well there is this guy & i like him so much! I use to tlk to him on the computer all the ttime... but all of a sudden it got diffrent! It was because I asked him out & he said no. So we have barley talked since! I have liked him so much for such a long time that im falling in love. I know he is shy, but i love him! Do you think he really likes me? Do you guys have a way to get him to like me??
2007-03-22 08:56:27 · 24 answers · asked by ChocoLatte092 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but he doesn't feel that way about you. He thinks of you only as a friend, and now he feels weird around you because he doesn't have those feelings for you. And you can't make him like you.
Cut your losses on this guy and find someone who feels the same way about you.
2007-03-22 08:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you asked HIM out and he said no, I'm sorry, he's just not interested. There could be many reasons. Shyness could be one - he could only be able to be fun and exciting while hiding behind is computer (like many do who use drugs to be able to be sociable). Or he could not be who he told you he was - meaning he has set up this online personality and meeting you for real would obviously kill the facade. He's only interested in the facade and doesn't want to meet you or anyone else for real - it's the unknown that turns him on - the fantasy. You could have scared him off by making the first move, some guys are intimidated or just don't like it when women are forceful or aggressive. OR he just doesn't like you the way you thought he did and certainly not the way you like him. My guess? He's not what he portrayed himself to be and you got way too close in asking to meet him. He doesn't want that, he wants to sit behind his computer and play fantasy world while he jacks off (not sure if you guys did the cyber sex thing). But I'm wondering how you feel like you are "in love" with him? Seems to me he was just playing and having a good time and you mistook that for something else. Hey it happens to the best of us, but now you gotta let it go and move on. He's just not interested. Good luck.
2007-03-22 09:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. That Sucks. I Know What It's Like. You Should Just Start Up A Conversation With Him And Try To Ignore Everything That Has Happened.
2007-03-22 08:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Midget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he is interested in and what gets his "juices" flowing. Joke around with him, show him that you can be a good girlfriend..that he won't go wrong choosing you. Respect his shyness, also get to know him a little better. Show him that you are a good person as well. And since he is shy do not , I repeat DO NOT put out unless you are able to turn him on. Hope this helps.
2007-03-22 09:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by jrmygray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you know him drop some more hints. But if you don't then leave it alone. It is so unsafe to ask a guy out that you don't even know what he looks like. Just be careful. But if u do know him go shopping and get some really sexy clothes and show your naughty side GURL!!!! I got my fingers crossed for u 2
2007-03-22 09:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm tough one, you cant force love! But if you wanna know how he really feels give it some time, play little hard to get, if u have been chatting for along time and know that you have been a regualr part of his life... then he will only realise what you mean to him without you!
Risky but worth a shot, if this fails try bk to ur tactic after a short period!
2007-03-22 09:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually met this person in the flesh? (face to face)
Maybe he has some physical flaws and is afraid of ruining your opinion of him? Maybe he is just not sure of his sexuality? Its so easy to portray yourself as one thing while hiding the truth behind cyber-space! Be careful maybe you don't want him to like you! Hope you find the truth and everything works out in your favor. Good luck!!
2007-03-22 09:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said no, then honey, move on. If he liked you, he would have said yes. If someone doesn't like you, don't try to force them to love you. Get a new boy. Good luck.
2007-03-22 08:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking on the computer does not lead to love and even if it did, you can't make someone like you.
2007-03-22 08:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be in a relationship with some one and i might be one of them faithful guys i didnt want to cheat and didnt want u to come on to him at the time im sorry but to fully answer the question i need more details
2007-03-22 09:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by damienlonely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋