a year ago he held me till i slept because i was bitter about my x cheating on me(they r mutual friends)he was so sweet.a couple months after that night we ran into eachother and he told me i was killing him.i have thought about him ever since in the past year.I finally called him and told him he was'eating me alive'he said it was mutual and he had no idea and he thinks im so beautiful,he said he wished he knew but he started seeing someone a month ago and its only fair that he tells,so i told him to tell me to let it go,he said he cant.I ran into him a couple weeks after and we were like magnets and we started kissing,i made him stop when i remembered his girlfrined,again he said he wished he knew how i had felt and that im the cutest girl alive and im everything he wants.Then he brought up that night(a year ago)and how he had felt so bad for me and he wanted to call me after but did not think i was into him.At the time i was not buying into what he was saying,but yet i do believe him
2007-03-22 08:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does he seem to care for me or is extremely attracted to me when he sees me?
2007-03-22 08:32:42 · update #1
Well, first of all stop talking in code...'You're eating me alive', etc... Call him up and sit him down..tell him how you fell about him. If he is really into/in love with you, he will dump the girlfriend and move forward with you...sucks for her but it happens all the time. If he chooses not do anything, then the feelings he has for you are not strong enough for him to really do anything about and maybe he just wants to play around each time he sees you, but nothing more.
2007-03-22 08:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one...it seems like he has strong feelings, but guys can be very deceptive...from the sounds of it though if he was just attracted to you he would have left it go after a year...if you do go for it, don't give yourself away to soon, test him...see if he really wants you for you or wants you for other reasons...really put him to the test see how long he stay without the "nookie" thats a big test with guys, if that is all they wont they wont wait around long...and then if he does say take it very slow, you can never be to careful when it comes to protecting yourself, you don't want to end up like you did when you first met him...and the guy holding you could be just another guy...just my advice take it slow...let it flow and see how long he stays...and if he stays then it was meant to be and he was honest. :) I hope no matter what you choose to do...it works for you :) Good Luck!
2007-03-22 15:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by DarkAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, well, it seems to me the kid definitely likes you. but i can't say with certainty since i don't know him. i would think that since he has only been dating this other girl for a month that he would stop seeing her for you...so that has me a little perplexed. why don't you just ask him what he expects? and if he gives you some lame excuse i would move on.
good luck.
there's plenty of boys in the world...
2007-03-22 15:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by lisa d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is interested he is just an idiot not to break up with his gf. Tell him that you like him and since he has liked you 4 about a year he seems interested in you.
2007-03-22 15:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by mariah!:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he does truly care for you. I think that you need to search your heart for the true answer on what to do though. Talk to him seriously about what he wants to happen with the both of you.
2007-03-22 15:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think you need some attraction to keep him likin you but i think he really has feeling why don't you just test him that will anwser your question
2007-03-22 15:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by christina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really like u he should brake up with his gf and be with u so i think he just in to hookup
2007-03-22 15:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to ditch the other chick then he can have you!!
2007-03-22 15:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋