I ask, because my wife had one. She had a towel on her 'lower area' but he pushed it up a bit to massage her back side and she said she told him that's fine (he asked if she felt uncomfortable), and she said she enjoyed it. She assured me she'd never do anything with him, but said it was definitely nice and said she will definitely go back.
Women, help, what are your thoughts here?
2007-03-22 08:29:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've actually had a massage myself, from both a man and a woman, but they never massaged any 'private' areas...
The guy that massaged my wife massaged her 'back side' and far inside her thighs. To put things in perspective, I'm sure he felt how turned on she was? And she was....I admit, I benefited from it, and I'm sure there were no sexual intentions, but it just surprised me, cuz I never knew they'd actually touch you in those places.
2007-03-22 08:39:40 · update #1
I don't see any thing wrong with it. if my husband did it, it would not bother me. its about trust. i know he won't ask for her number to take her out and he knows i would never ask for a guys number. i get massages done all the time and they turn me on. my man loves it because i come home ready to go !!!
2007-03-22 08:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether anything happened or not the point is that it makes you uncomfortable. If you got a nude massage from a woman and that happened would it bother her. Ask her the same question and explain to her that she can get all of the massages that she wants as long as she has some semblance of clothes on the important parts of her body. She may be innocent ; however the masseuse may have different ideas.
2007-03-22 15:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm ok this is strange and the fact that she is sharing this with you is even stranger. First of all I don't know of any professional massage place that provides nude massages. It's simply unprofessional and NOT DONE. Personally I think some women are immature and will do anything just to make a guy jealous, since they do believe this proves that they love them in some strange psycho way. So I think you wife was either truing to get a reaction from you or if it indeed did happen than that incident was very much unprofessional!
2007-03-22 15:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Leyla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is totally acceptable if the person is a professional. I have been massaged by men and women. It is better when you are nude so your undergarments don't get in the way of the massage. I'm sure it was just an innocent massage and nothing else so don't worry.
2007-03-22 15:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a swedish massage by a man before and I was really nervous. But they are professionals - it's a professional thing. If you think shes enjoying it because of the man that's doing it maybe you can ask her to see a woman the next time.
2007-03-22 15:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know most places tell you to undress to your comfort level which means she could have probably left something on. I went to get a massage once it was by a male and i left my undies on I would never go completly nude I think it is actually innapropriate. And if he was good i see why she would want to go back but maybe you should ask her to wear her undies next time.
2007-03-22 15:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by princessbarbiex04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know as a guy I feel uncomfortable if it was my girl. Usually I prefer a female to massage her. And there is no double standard, I am not getting any massages from anyone ;-)
2007-03-22 15:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dilan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only a massage right? So there isnt anything wrong with it. If the woman is getting any sexual gratification from it then yes I think it is completely wrong.
2007-03-22 15:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Agey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sue I would allow it he is there to massage you, and not to have sex with you.... there are class's on doing this, if you did not want your wife to do it take a class and do it for her
YOU MAY BOTH LIKE IT.... and maybe she could take a class and massage you as well and HEY..... Sure would spice up friday night wouldnt it
2007-03-22 15:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman love massages,, I will ask my friend , but I dont think she is confindant enough with her body to let a man touch her back naked,,
shouldnt upset you,, learn to massage your wife,, can lead to some hot S*X
2007-03-22 15:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋