I slept over this guys house two nights ago and we only kissed and cuddled all night long. He's a friend of a friend. He is obviously attracted to me but is he interested in more then sex? I haven't dated in a long time so I'm sure how to figure out if he is actually interested in me. Do I text him or just wait for him to text? He is normally a player but is the players game or not?
2007-03-22 08:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I would say he may actually be interested in you, I mean if you stayed over and he went no further than kissing and cuddling you then he was the perfect gentleman and that to me shows some amount of respect. take it slowly with this guy and just wait to see what happens.
2007-03-22 08:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a player, wouldn't he have made a move? Sounds like he doesn't want to 'play' you, for whatever reason...maybe the mutual friend warned him not to screw you over. If you are interested, give him a call or txt him hello. If you don't get any response back, then he is probably not into you. You will never know until you try.
2007-03-22 08:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's difficult to tell. I'd issue a test of some sort. I'd recommend doing something with him that involves minimal physical contact, little or no chance to flirt with one another, etc. I'm not sure what that would be, but my first guess would be some form of voluntary community service or something. If he can endure that for more than once, perhaps he really does care about you.
2007-03-22 08:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look like...sorry
player is always a player until he decided to not continue to be.
Good Luck
2007-03-22 08:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by lollol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he likes you... and ask yourself if you want to be with someone who is known as a "Player". Doesn't sound like a guy I'd want to be around!! keep your heart safe
2007-03-22 08:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should communicate, if you feel comfartable. Maybe he thinks that you don't like what he does to you.
2007-03-22 08:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Nana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a funhole? Then of course he's interested, thats a no brainer...unless you are fugly
2007-03-22 08:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should play hard to get
2007-03-22 08:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by tasha a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it is...sorry.
2007-03-22 08:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋