When you take a video of you and your lover going at it do you prefer to tell her?

Question

I don't think she'll act natural if I do, so I never tell her. My friends all say it looks better than the fake p*rn actors make.

Answer 1

I NEVER TELL MY GIRLFRIEND SO DON'T FEEL GUILTY

Answer 2

You don't have a lover. You have sex with a girl, whom you use, and clearly don't respect. It's disgusting that you would tape her behind her back, nevermind, show it to your friends. You're right though, if you tell her at this point, she probably won't act natural. If she's not a complete idiot, she'll walk out on you and you can videotape yourself masturbating. I have nothing against making a video, but like the sex itself, it needs to be consentual. You're low.

Answer 3

Listen, The only people that have responded to you are women. If you have been taping the two of you, and she doesnt know, Be smart, DON'T tell her, it will lead to nothing good!!! you should STOP showing your friends. Loose lips sink tight ships. You do need to talk to her, tell her you want to do it, if shes cool with it, make several tapes, then gradually show her the ones you did withtout her knowledge. Kinda sneak them in without her knowing. If you tell her she will think you are a creep and a lier.

Answer 4

I can't believe you did that. Not only are you lying to her but your exposing something very private to others?! if you loved her you wouldn't do things like that. Might as well tell her and prove to her that you're a pig and that she is to you just a piece of a$s. Come on get a damm hooker for that, I'm sure she'll do a better job for you and your friends to laugh at and have fun jerking off.......a$$hole.

Answer 5

Depends on her. I would think it was totally hott to do that. I would want to watch dirty movies of me and my honey. A LOT!!! The on the other hand make sure it doesnt get out where you dont want it too. A tape of mine surfaced after 9 years, at my brothers foot-ball party in front of all his friends all I know about it now it that people were throwing money at my brother trying to buy it and I never saw it again.

Answer 6

First of all you should not be showing your personal act of your sexual experience with your lover to your friends. And I think it is VERY wrong of you to video someone in that way without their permission.

Answer 7

ok? that's invasion of privacy if they don't know.

how do you think she'll react? joke with her and ask her what she'll do or if she'll let you film her. if it's a positive answer, go for it.

remember, you can make money off a homemade porn, but most of that will just go to the settlment in the courts.

Answer 8

How would you feel if you were filmed doing the naughty with your woman that you care for and then have it shown to total strangers who are ripping it and YOUR preformance to shreds???Hmmm.....have a heart, if she's into filming her sexual acts with you then its o.k but otherwise don't do it, because it WILL come out an YOU will be the LOOSER!!!!

Answer 9

First of all, you shouldn't be taking a video of her w/o her consent. Secondly, you shouldn't be showing your friends. You need to learn to have respect for you partner. If you approach her and she is happy to oblige, you will certainly have fun.

Answer 10

I recommend telling her or else you could potentially have a pretty bad lawsuit on your hands because this is against the law.

Answer 11

You're making videos of the two of you that she doesn't know about and you're showing them to your friends? do you see how that sounds......I don't think she's gonna take that very lightly