I know that my now ex-boyfriend still has feelings but i cant even get him to talk to me he will talk to my friends untill they mention me and i cant get over him! I want him to take me back or at least talk to me and one of my friends called him 63 times in a row and he though it was me it was the same friend that told me to break up with him HELP!
2007-03-22 08:18:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you listening to your friends when it comes to your relationship with someone? Sounds like you had to many bees in the ear to listen to your heart. The break up was hard on him obviously, either his ego or heart. What I would do is write him a letter and explain you know what you did was wrong and you are truely sorry. You can not change what has been done but if he would give you a chance you would do everything in your power to show him that it was a mistake on your part. I say write a letter because then he can choose when or if he reads it. Have your friends stop calling him trying to get him to talk to you, the more they push the longer he will take to come around. Put the ball into his court and let him decide what is best for him. If he comes around then great but if he doesn't then you will have to let it go.
2007-03-22 08:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...take some time off from the anxiety of this unintentional situation hun. You're gonna have a heart and mind hemorrhage here if you keep whipping yourself so indiscriminately otherwise. You've made your bed here hun...so just go lye in it for a little while here...will ya? You deserve exactly what you're getting here hun...it is what YOU decided upon here now by yourself...wasn't it? He needs time to let the dust settle from YOUR huge mistake hun....so give him his space babe. He ain't gonna be coming back if you start looking desperate here either. So knock it off for awhile...and take your lumps sugar. Life will be better in a few weeks for ya darling...maybe!
2007-03-22 08:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is done with this guy and he has the option not to talk to you and communicate with you, he has determined himself that he does not want to date you or have anything to do with you, all the calling you are doing is not going to work because he stopped taking your calls which means that he does not want to talk to you anymore and would appreciate it if you left him alone. Do you actually know that your ex has feelings for you or are you assuming. Just realize that he does not want you and you need to move on with your life and let him move on with his.
2007-03-22 08:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really don't want him back, you just don't like that he does not want you. Leave it alone and remember why you broke up with him.
2007-03-22 08:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by discovered 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋