I have broken up with my bf 3 weeks ago, i still love him to bits but he seems not to care we have broken up, he said he misses me and is really confused and wants me to stay friends and doesnt want to loose me. i thought maybe he just needs space but i got mixed signals from him, he said he wants to hang out in holidays. I was really hurt that he said he doesnt love me when we broke up and then i found out he was going on dates.. he said we are not getting back together. I wanted to give him space but i wanted to believe something would happen in the future. but seeing him with other girls just hurt too much so i told him i was seeing someone too and that i cant stay friends with him. We havent spoken since.. i love him so much but i had to stop seeing him to get over him.. because he kept giving me hope of getting back.. like calling me, txting me, asking me to give him time as hes confused about what he wants. did he just need space?? will not seeing me at all make him want me back?
2007-03-22 08:17:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to the doctor, get on anti- depressants, and talk to some people that you can see. Fill your time with ohter things and keep telling yourself that you will be okay. And stop saying tat you love him all of the time, it will only depress you more. If it is ment to be he will come back. Being a psycho chic wont help you at all, and you wont seem very disireable either. It will be okay.
2007-03-22 08:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Carolyn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you two don't need to be lovers anymore darling...sorry! Playing games with each others minds isn't playing very nicely either. You're bigger then this high school stuff...aren't you hun? You're both gonna end up hating each other if one of you two doesn't stop the bleeding here darling. Put a tourniquet on his head and spin him around a few times on his keister hun. He needs to know which way the door swings honey...and as far as I can tell reasonably...it needs to swing outwardly for him babe. I know this isn't what you wanna hear from me hun...but it is what you truly need to be hearing. He's on other dates now darling..and so should YOU be too! Are we cool hun?
2007-03-22 15:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, this dude is sleeping around, right? Sheesh, that should be a really good indicator that he's not for you.
2007-03-22 15:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋