Sooo I like my friend for a long time already, and almost everyday she would call me and we would talk for a couple of hours for the past 1.5 years. I like her a lot, but she can't date because she's muslim and im non-muslim. However, friday i texted her to see what's up and saturday i texted her that i missed her and she texted me back late late at night saying she just came back from her family's gathering and shes really tired and she said plz dont expect me to call everyday... Soo im feeling kinda hurt from that and I don't know how to respond. i just texted her back i know i understand. How do I go to approach this? I really like her and she tells me literally everything in her life and I would be willing to marry her and convert to islam if she really does like me (i have no religion as of now), but I'm afraid to tell her because everytime i tell a girl that i like her, it fails..
*edit she called back yesterday but i kinda didnt give her a chance to talk about it.....
2007-03-22 08:17:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Leave her alone. Don't get despo.
2007-03-22 08:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Atheist Eye Candy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't become Muslim . For 2 or more years it will interesting for you but after it , I'm sure nobody can continue with it, and the penalty of converting from Muslim to non-Muslim is death.
Why you wanna change your religion anyway? My grand father was Muslim but his wife was Christian , if your girl friends isn't a very very very religious one, then marrying a non-Muslim can't be any problem for her ...
2007-03-22 15:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by F R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm not too good with love advice, but here it goes.
First of all, don't convert to Islam just for somebody else. Do it, because you want to sincerely from your heart.
Secondly, play it cool with your friend. I'm sure she didn't mean to hurt your feelings saying don't expect me to call everyday.
Well, good luck with your friend!
2007-03-22 15:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm,she shouldnt be in contact with you in the first place,but whats done is done.
im glad you already know that you must convert to islam,but i would like to know you converted because you believe in Allah and the 5 pillars of islam.this is what converting is all about.
hmm,i think you should get it over with and tell her,and ask her what she thinks.and it depends on her family also.are they very religious? i mean imagine if it was my daughter,i would want you to prove to me that you was a muslim of faith e.g. praying,going to the mosque and so on.
ask yourself,would you want islam if this girl wasnt around?
maybe you can ask her about islam?she can guide you
i wish you well!
2007-03-22 15:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to go about it is to tell her your feelings and let her know that you would be willing to convert to Islam for her. Just make sure that when you convert, that it is truly something you can believe in.
2007-03-22 15:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Maverick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even though u are nervous u should talk to her about it and if u really are interested in islam get to know the relgion so u can have a reason to talk to her
this way u can ask her ur questions and it will bring you two closer but u dont wanna seem desperate either but dont be pushy either
well i hope all works out
best of luck brother
peace
noori
2007-03-22 15:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by noori_unisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be under pressure from her family to not be friends with you or any non-muslim.
I would say, let your friendship cool off and if necessary, let it go.
Even if you were to convert to Islam (no girl or guy is worth doing that), her family probably still would not accept you.
2007-03-22 15:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm.. this is tough. muslims arnt allowed datin. u can keep it easy by keepin the relationship clean. for example dont call her alot!!!!! she might get in trouble...
n if u convert sure! her parents probably wont mind but along with religion there are other things too...
2007-03-22 16:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by haniah m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
research islam if you like it convert then ask her
where is she from i might be able to tell you more if you tell me more info email me ahmad786_baig@hotmail.com
2007-03-22 15:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ahmad B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋