My best friend and I got into this argument. She told me her boyfriend put his penis into her vagina, but it didnt go all the way in because, of course, she's a virgin and he didnt pop her cherry. She said she was still a Virgin. I told her, you just lost it. And she said that you only lose your virginity if he pops your cherry. I told her that wasn't true because some people break the hymen due to intense sports or some are even born without it!
So who's right? My best friend...who says you he must pop your cherry first...or Me: Who says that the penis must enter the vagina first, regardless of the hymen being broken...??
2007-03-22 08:08:59 · 14 answers · asked by Kimberly C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say the answer is two fold.
If tested by a Dr. your friend would still be deemed a virgin because her hymen would still be in tact.
If you spoke with some religious or moral majority types they would say she is not a virgin.
He actions and intentions are defintely far from innocent.
She seems to be very active sexually and no innocent.
So I would say that her days of innocence are long gone.
Chances are if she is still with this guy, they will end up trying to do it again.
She better hope she is mature enough to handle the consequences.
2007-03-30 07:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse. If your best friend's boyfriend put his penis into her vagina, then she had sexual intercourse. You are also correct in saying that some girls break their hymen through intense sports, or are born without it. If your best friend were to be examined and her hymen is still intact, and the person who examined her didn't know about her "deed", she would technically still be considered a virgin. But the fact remains, by definition, she is not !!!
2007-03-28 00:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the hymen is not broken, the girl is obviously still a virgin. That's the name for it. I mean, I can't think of any other words to describe a woman with an unbroken hymen.
2007-03-30 00:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Since her vagina was penetrated by a penis, she is no longer a virgin.
2007-03-29 23:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biologically---your best friend is right. There's no traces of her ever having done it if the hymen isn't broken.
However, technically, you are right. "Virgin" means untainted and well--she's not.
Either way, in this day and age, it doesn't really matter much if you are or aren't.
2007-03-25 14:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Snow Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When a guy enters your pussy and you feel alot of pain but suck his dick to make it really hard then you will no longer be a virgin if you get off.
2007-03-30 12:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Shanana Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not a virgin so she needs 2 get over it. maybe she's trying 2 make every excuse possible 2 alwayz say she's a virgin but uh she's wrong!
2007-03-30 02:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be as if may to your friend, but her butt is wrong!!
if there was penetration of any sort she's not a virgin anymore.
2007-03-30 14:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by p@nKiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you right. she lost it. the lose it with out the sex theory is true.
2007-03-29 19:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ethically you;but technically she is right.
2007-03-30 14:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by laxmi kumar n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋