This is becoming annoying?

Question

there's this girl and we are classmates for 9 years. I started to like her about 2 years ago. I admire her personality first, the looks are secondary. I knew I would never have the guts to ask her out of something so I just hoped the feeling would go away. It's been 2 years and it's still here, more powerful than before. I could never ask her out because of my shyness and I am afraid of rejection. I think about her every day, dunno how she feels. Give me some hints on how to take her out of my mind, cause I think this could be more than a crush since it lasted that long and I don't want something like this. And no, I never had a girlfriend before.

Answer 1

cheers for answering my question, Yep we do have the same problem, and i do "more than just fancy her" i actually want to spend the rest of my life with her. I am also really shy, and i would feel right stupid talking to her about me fancying her.

I also find it really hard when all you can think about is "that girl" people always say "find another girl" but its not that easy, do you find that too, edit your answer on my question and tell me or send it to my email near my Display picture on my page.




yer same here, girls i used to fancy a bit are like nothing anymore, shes the only one im interested in. I was unconfident with women before i met her and i used to go red and stuff, but know shes sort of helped me and im a lot more confident aroung girls, do you find that too?




The way ive gone about it so far is to try and avoid them, it may sound strange but it seems to work, and another thing people say is "do more stuff". I find this really does work, and you have to trust me. say you're at a party, or ten pin bowling or ice skating, anything!, you will be having fun and won't be thinking about her, really try it and trust me.

Hope this helps, and i hope we both soon find some sort of relief, hey you know what, I hope we both get "that girl" :)

Good Luck Mate :)

Answer 2

YOU HAVE 2 CHOICES
1) try talking too her like a normal person. Be a bit more open minded. Go to her sometime where there are not many ppl and just ask her will u go out with me. Cuz if u have the GUTS to ask her, then she has to say yes!!

2) Get more interested in your studies. BECOME A NERD! Sit far from. Sit somewhere like infront of her so you dont c her.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

The only way to move on in your life is to talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't want to do anything about it or seems repulsed, then u know it won't happen and you will have to move on. Then again she may find you just as attractive and be shy or scared herself? You won't know till you ask. If you don't ask then you will regret it later on down the road! Just do it!

Answer 5

Just tell her how you feel and see what happens, if she's your friend, even IF she does reject you, she will do it in a nice way to where you're not actually hurt. Believe me, just tell her how you feel, but DON'T come on TOO strong. Girls like those "hard-to-get" bad boy types, so don't come on too strong and ruin it. Just kinda give her a hint, and you'll be surprised by her reaction!

Answer 6

Then the only thing to do is to ask her if she would like to go out some time, just try and talk to her already----you must break the spell you are under.

Answer 7

stop being shy and ask her out , rejection does not mean u cant try again with someone else and will eliminate the problem

Answer 8

Why not just risk asking her out? or maybe ask her to come with you and some other people to a movie or some event.

Answer 9

well you can write her a letter and drop it off at her house
you can be a man and ask her out by asking her to wait up after class
you can ask a friend to hook you guys up

Answer 10

if you like her, don't just see if it'll go away. have a moment when you're alone and ask her about it. if you are still shy, ask a close friend to ask her if she likes you or not. if you don't go after her, someone will. she might be shy too.