come out of the dumps and start living life
2007-03-22 08:04:09 · 14 answers · asked by killer boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be more positive,dont look down on yourself,basically create a new attitude
2007-03-22 08:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby that will get you out of the house and out with other people. Evening/weekend classes at a school, martial arts classes, sports- all these things put you in contact with potential new friends, which could potentially lead into more. Just put yourself out there. Anything to take your mind off what/whoever put you in the dumps to start with.
2007-03-22 08:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Shane of the dead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a class, make new friends, wear ur heart on ur sleeve. b honest, sensitive, and caring. read great literature and educate urself. b who u r, but respect others as well. take life 1 day @ a time. don't let oppurtunities go by and create oppertunities 4 urself. keep the future in mind w/ most every action. have fun!
2007-03-22 08:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cosmo baby! The cosmopolitain magazine has everything you need. I read it every month! Just get out there and empower yourself! And don't hang around ppl that make you feel bad about yourself either...that's just another loose canon. Make a decision and stick by it! We all have choices in life...let this be yours!
2007-03-22 08:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by globalystic1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me a pic and Ill rate you..honestly....Your problem isnt the way you look though, it is your self esteem, and you need to get it back.....Looking pretty helps on the surface but it does not do anything for your soul. You have to find it within yourself to be happy and okay with what you have
2007-03-22 08:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by surfinnorcal77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to answer because we don't know what your concerns are. The big thing is to develop self-esteem and accept who you are. One way to do that is to get in shape. Another is to get really good at something--try something you like, such as playing pool or another activity. The key is to like what you do, and get good at it. If you do that, your confidence will rise, and the rest is easy.
CGW!
2007-03-22 08:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Go Chuck Wow! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing things you normally wouldn't do. Get a new hair cut or style...buy some new clothes/shoes. Then maybe go somewhere different with your friends. Their's a lot you can do
2007-03-22 08:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not really yourself u need to upgrade its your self esteem and if you are just dusty get a job and buy clothes to make you feel better
2007-03-22 08:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kewi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of work is what you need. But how are you tryin to upgrade urself?
2007-03-22 08:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by mscollege_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do those things you always wanted to do but thought you never had the guts to do.
2007-03-22 08:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋