my ex lover and i broke up because they cheated.We were the best of friends and even though we went threw the whole (I CANT BELIEVE YOU DID THAT TO ME THING). We still are best friends.well about 2 days ago I got an email from a friend saying that my ex was seen with the person they cheated on with me at the movies.When confronted they admitted to it and said they have been hanging out on the regular but nothing sexual has happened. My x promised me that they would never associate with this person again but after me moving away to college they reformed.I really believe they're sorry but i dont no .what the hell should i do im not even mad about the **** but i know i need to take action
2007-03-22 08:01:57 · 35 answers · asked by killer boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun, do you really consider that the "best thing ever" for you? that's really sad.
2007-03-22 08:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you playing the pronoun game? Doesn't matter. Ex means Ex. Disassociate yourself from this ex person if you want. Don't if you don't. No action is needed by you. It's over. It's history. The Ex is not the best thing ever. The Ex lied. The Ex cheated. Live your own life.
2007-03-22 08:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control a person who has no present obligation to you, he is your ex. You are away at college, find new friends and move on. You don't need to take any action, other than to say that you wish they hadn't lied to you and gone behind your back, upfront and honest is always the best way. Get a life. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-22 08:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Man she is sooo not worth it, even though she is ur best friend.....If she wants to be with the other guy and she lies to you about it then she probably has a thing for him still and she's not into you like that anymore. Just dont worry about it anymore and try to get over the fact that you like her as more then a friend.....and just be friends.Its the best thing to do so you wont get hurt any longer....Hope this helps!
2007-03-22 08:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by *MaRiSsA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...cheating is cheating is cheating...there's no other way to look at it, or spell it, or nothing! Cheaters simply aren't to be trusted...not ever. I just left a gal that cheated on me twice that I know of. Shame on me really...I know better then to hang out with bottom feeding scum really! It was my mistake giving her a second chance after cheating on me truly. That won't be happening again anyways...at least not with her seriously! Life's' a *****...and so is she. She knows it,... smells of it,... and she tastes like it too. Yuck!
2007-03-22 08:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't WALK away....you should RUN!
Don't let that person drag you down - he/she probably cares about you enough to not want to hurt your feelings...but that is all.
You need to move on, and not look back. You are better and stronger than that and there are too many other people out there to be fighting for someone who doesn't want you.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 08:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not the best thing ever. Really. the best thing ever hasn't happened yet, because the best thing ever would respect you too much to ever cheat or lie to you. I'm serious. The best thing ever, will love everything about you and cherish you too much to blow you off, or to disresepct you in front of others.
Yes, walk away. Go look for the best thing ever.
2007-03-22 08:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm alittle confused, you are referring to this person as "they" and "ex" There's a reason they become ex's, if you are truly just friends then you should be okay with whomever they see. Personally I don't see any action needed on your part.
2007-03-22 08:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm slightly confused. Are you friends or are you dating again? If you're dating, I would walk away. If he's been cheating on you then he's not the best thing ever. If you're just friends, I'd just ignore it.
2007-03-22 08:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is this any of your business??? He/she is your ex therefore you have absolutely no right to ask him/her who they can or can not date, even if you are still friends. The same goes for you too. When you break up with someone you lose that right. Sorry.
2007-03-22 08:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Leyla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk away , he has lied to you in your face and he is making a fool out of you! you can sit around and wait for their first born but if i were you i would upgrade to a better man who didn't feel like he needs to be with another girl and me ! and hey your away at college ... GO WILD .. THE GUYS THERE ARE HOT AND HOPEFULLY SMART !!! don't waste your time with this dude who is back home going to the movies , wasting his life away ! good luck Hun :o)
2007-03-22 08:09:12 · answer #11 · answered by live in the magic of life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋