here's some background info.
I liked this guy who I thought liked me back b/c he was always flirting with me and I would flirt back. He moved seats one day and I had no idea why and I tried asking him and he wouldn't tell me and he wouldn't talk to me anymore either. So I sent this stupid email telling him how I miss talking to him and asking him why he's acting so weird. He opened the email in a class that we have together while we were in the computer lab. His friend read it too!! And he confronted me by asking me if I sent that and not in a nice way and now he's making fun of me and i think he told his other friends about this too. I told him that I didn't send it but I he knows the truth. He threw something at me today in the hallway-(not heavy) and burst out laughing. I hate that little ****** now and what do I do??? I have to see him everyday and he's probably told all his friends. I'm soo embarassed! I don't think I'll ever be able to look at that ****** again. What do I do??
2007-03-22 08:00:49 · 10 answers · asked by lovin' it 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is throwing things at you- you should see the principal.
I suggest you just leave him alone. He's obviously too immature to be interested in such a great girl :)
2007-03-24 09:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's painful to have reached out and get rejected. It's more painful when the jerk acted so cruely. You should know:
1. This will eventually pass from people's memories.
2. There are people who have been exposed to the information who will be empathetic.
3. The lesson you have learned from all this -- being cautious about written communication -- is very worthwhile.
4. You are better off learning about the type of person he is now, rather than waiting until you are further along.
5. You'll meet another and having learned your lesson, you'll be able to spend more time sizing him up.
2007-03-30 14:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and be done with it. Let it go and just ignore them. If that does not work, then act a lil confused, a lil amazed, and definately superior being like yea, well, none of you are honest with each other much less me,.. so I really couldnt care less.. Just be gone. The taunting will stop when you show indifference and self-respect. If you can gain the respect of the leader, then the rest will follow but I would just focus on finding people to hang with who are cool and don't try to take their problems and sense of inferiority out on others to make themselves feel better. Keep your head up. They are the ones making fools of themselves. Better to see it now, rather than later. Don't worry, what goes around, comes around. Give it time.
2007-03-30 14:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by ambriannaone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay.. most men wonder why women aren't as open, but when we open up to them.. they act all silly and childish, but he's very immature. Just take it as a lesson learned. I always tend to go for the guys who are about 2 yrs older than me, cause they are way more maturer than the guys my age. So maybe u might need to do that.
2007-03-30 12:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mrz`J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just chalk this incident up to one of those embarrassing moments we ALL experience. This boy is obviously immature, and a complete jerk. Don't think that anyone else at school hasn't noticed his juvenile behavior as well. Any friends of his who think he is funny,are only a reflection of him. If he continues to harass, or bully you, that will cause harm in any way, shape or form, then go to the school principal, and or your parents. If he just continues to be annoying, ignore him, and do not give him the satisfaction of reacting to him and his childish antics.
2007-03-29 16:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rise above it and even though you like him act as though his childish games aren't affecting you in anyway. As hard as it is act like you don't see him or notice him and his buddies. He is reacting because he is too embarrassed or childish to talk about feelings. You deserve better and as soon as he thinks you are over him and his games you will see a change in his actions towards you.
2007-03-30 13:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Joni L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats one of the worsts shits to go threw but guess what its not too easy to just walk away from it .. and forget about it.. this kinda i think that he thinks that hes too good for you and now he wont let that go he feels good about himself by telling his friends and all that so i think you should just move on if you do have any kind of feelings for him.. because i sure as hell kno that you're not in LOVE with this lil ***** specially if he thinks he's too good for you find sumone else thats actually worth your time and as the time goes by he'll notice and deeply inside will miss it...
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-30 14:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus ignore him. dont lie. that doesnt help anything. jus try 2 go on with ur life. show him it doesnt bother u. hes an immature retard who doesnt deserve a great girl like u! move on and find someone else. hell regret bein mean 2 u sooner or later!
2007-03-30 12:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore the loser. don't act nice to him, don't act mean either, don't give him any more ammunition to use against you. act like you don't know who he is. find new friends. you can't change him and you're not gunna get an apology from him, so change yourself, move on and don't look back.
2007-03-29 01:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a loser. Best thing to do is hold your head high and strut your stuff.
2007-03-30 09:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Honeyluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋