i bought this girl something..something that she wants..but i lie to her how i got it..she did say thanks..and i told her how i got it..and her response was "please dont to it again..it makes me uncomfortable"..does that mean anything??..i mean i did put an effort to her thing that she wants.
2007-03-22 07:47:19 · 25 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and no!
2007-03-22 13:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you steal it or something? It was a nice gesture to give her what she wants but if you i.e. did steal it or bribe someone or something like that and you told her and she asked you not do that again, then you should probably not do that again. Next time you decide to give her something, get in away that she would respect i.e. you worked hard for it. However, also keep in mind that often the most meaningful gifts are those that don't cost much, come from the heart, say something special about what that person means to you i.e. making something with our own hands and imagination.
2007-03-22 14:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Main 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting something via nefarious means is just plain creepy, which puts you in the category of just plain creepy. Next time, keep the acquisition information to yourself. Now go buy her a gift the traditional way (money, honestly earned, go into a store, and hand it over). Women want security from their man. Your ability to gather is not it. This will take some work to rebuild, Paulie Walnuts.
2007-03-22 14:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how you got it, but for most of us the implication is that the item was stolen or otherwise acquired in a way that she doesn't like. I can't comment about how you got it, but you have to keep your eye on the prize: if she doesn't like it for whatever reason--to include how you got it--then its not worth it.
Women are usually more interested in sentimental items that come from the heart. Something that you make yourself will earn you big points compared to something you bought.
2007-03-22 14:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Go Chuck Wow! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok she wants the gift. We all want gift, we don't usually care how you got, we just want it. LOL. But don't share with anybody about how you got it. That's your business. When you find out how somebody got you a gift then it kinda changes everything. Don't ever share how much you paid, where you got it or how you got it, ok. It's a gift, they shouldn't wanna know anyway. Just take it and say thank you. If they wanna know all that then tell em' get it their self.
2007-03-22 15:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gift was not worth doing something stupid over! Don't let your need to impress this girl or any girl get you thrown in jail! Don't like to be mean, but you just sound pu**y whipped and dumb.
2007-03-22 14:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the thing, you put a lot of effort into it. some people, especially insecure, have problems accepting gifts, its not you, its her own deal, she felt uncomfortable taking something from you that might have meant a lot. you should talk to her and don't leave it unresolved.
2007-03-22 14:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Professor Crazyass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you acquired the money for purchasing the item through illegal means, or just acquired the item through illegal means, then she's uncomfortable with your method.
So, if she says, don't do it again, don't do it again. She forgives you this time, but next time she won't..
2007-03-22 14:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by TheShiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER admit that you steal something for a girl...
It makes her feel that she isn't special enough for you to actually spend money on her gift!
2007-03-22 14:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels guilty - probably about how you got the money for it, or how much it was, or just that you went to too much trouble to get it.
2007-03-22 14:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but how did you get it , it it was really something that i wanted and then my partner got it for me and then i found out it was got illegaly i would throw it back in his face as there would be no respect for me
2007-03-22 14:52:51 · answer #11 · answered by sprookey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋