I am involved with a guy, i have been thru a lot of stuff, guys being unfaithful to me and cheating etc, i tell my guy this, and bcause of past experiences i am scared to trust him in case he turns out like all the rest, i have resolved to trust him until he gives me a reason not to. but i am kind of getting suspicious feelings that he might be cheating, like one time when i called him and i heard a chicas voice in the background(i M his only female friend, he lives with his mom & i know her voice) he's most eager to see me when he wants the sex, 'n' if i can't come see him he's vexed with me.
could he be a cheater?
2007-03-22 07:45:24 · 22 answers · asked by kamarla_phillips06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's always a possibility. Maybe you heard the TV or something or it was his Mom's friend. Until he gives you a real reason, you should continue trusting him. It's hard but work on it. Don't make a stupid mistake with this, you could lose him forever and he may be a great, wonderful guy for you and only you.
2007-03-22 07:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have seen it with your own two eyes, you can't say he has been cheating. Suppose the chica's voice u heard was a friend of the mother? If he was cheating he would of been a bit more discrete in letting you hear that voice. As far as the sex thing you need to bring that up 2 him, figure out what it will take to get yall on the same page.
Good Luck.
2007-03-22 14:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...could be hun..but nothings for certain until it's actually been confirmed with you directly sweetie. Your history is filled with cheaters...hence the mistrust of most men I'd presume. I'd talk it up with this guy and just flat out come out and ask him. Look him in the eyes babe...cause the eyes don't lie to anyone seriously. If he can't look you in the eye when he's responding?...well?...then that will be your answer here hun. Let's hope he looks you straight up and flat out directly darling...otherwise he's gonna become yesterdays news with you certainly. Most people can't lie very well darling...especially when being confronted in eye to eye combat quite seriously. Big defensive flags generally rise up in people like a "phoenix rises from the ashes" when they do hun...so know the signals when ya see em. Unless he's absolutely a confirmed cheating cadd darling?...don't jump the gun with him either. He might simply be adored and cherished and desired by allot of people otherwise. Let's hope he's true to you sweetie. It's the only kind of guy you wanna be with quite seriously otherwise. Are we together on this hun?
2007-03-22 15:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he starts to act more suspicious then you should keep an eye on him but voices dont really mean anything could have been on the street and someone was talking behind him and if he dont love you and only cares about sex then thats not good aswell. can you see your relationship going anywhere if you can then maybe you should stay with him but he should be loyal and true to you .
p.s its kinda sad if he lives with his mom how old is he
2007-03-22 14:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEah, sounds like a loser, your instincts are probably right...move on before you REALLY get attached.
The good guy's out there, waiting for you to notice him so hang in there and be patient. I think that's the biggest problem, we're so in love with the idea of being in love, bad choices are made.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 14:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when a guy is cheating when he tells you that he is not, in a defensive manner.
Also, make sure to look him right in the eyes, ask if he is, and watch for him to look around, usually down. Also, when asking, look for him to touch his face, usually nose or brow area...
2007-03-22 14:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by ssmith4007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced when a guy pays too much attention to you he is trying to hard to cover it up or does things for you that is not the norm
2007-03-22 14:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows guys don't cheat...BUT if it were to happen here's how you can tell....
If you walk into an eating establishment with your date and see him there with his date already....HE'S CHEATING.
2007-03-22 14:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by idontwantasalad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like kind of an idiot. Go find a nice guy.
2007-03-22 14:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he just wants sex, then i would say yes he is cheating.
2007-03-22 14:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋