Should i leave?
just had a harsh breakup with my gf. things are very bitter. Should i **** around the world for a year. she said she had feelings for me and care me but wasn't ready for another serious relationship. But i found out she started seeing her ex who was a colleague of mine. So should i still be her mate. Or should i just **** off round the world and do my own thing?
2007-03-22 07:31:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be her mate, what happens if you need help one day and she still hates you, and also as the quote says keep your friends close but your enymys closer, you can be her friend but you don`t have to actually like her, you get me?
2007-03-22 07:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OUCH....
yep it sounds as though you have some termoil going on. It's hard being friends with someone that you've recently been intimate with.
I think once two people are intimate, they gather feelings for each other as though they wouldn't want to see the other get hurt. Nevertheless when a relationship comes to an end, it's like a chapter in a book that has been closed.
It sounds to me through what you have wrote. That it is time to start a new chapter in your life. I'd move on, and if she is ready to commit more of her feelings. Then I'm sure she'll let you know. It's surely not fair to keep you in the hanging while she get's to explore. And making each experience you are around each other bitter, and hard.
Keep your chin up... and look into another chapter.
2007-03-22 07:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's an option to be her mate at this point. She's with someone else. So for that reason I think you shuold **** around the world for a year or more. Good Luck with that.
2007-03-22 07:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say still be civil to her but she obviously is with her ex now. so you should just **** who you want when you want. Dont worry about her too much if she wants you shell come back to you if not at least you can still be friends or **** buddies.
2007-03-22 07:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once you have dipped into the well, all friendships are off. You are being played. She is having her cake and eating it too. There you are waiting in the wings. Dude you have your freedom, enjoy
Leykis 101 rules........................
2007-03-22 07:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if u still like her go get her back but if u dont like her try to be friends if that dont work out then just give up with her and find someone n3w
2007-03-22 07:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by chaunceyB#1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave- if she really cared she would'nt be seeing other people. You get from people what you tolerate. I fyou are a doormat she will treat you as such
2007-03-22 07:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by hotsexynurse69 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should still have a good relationship, just dont spend as much time around her. be there when she needs you but nothing else. do your own thing. youll find it better.
2007-03-22 07:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only be a friend if she treats you like a friend as well.
2007-03-22 07:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after all this i think she still have feelings for you and she had find this out after your break up,that's why she couldn't loose you...so,think about it,if you want to stay her friend,that will be good,but if you won't it's your choice.....good luck
2007-03-22 07:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋