I have a boyfriend but he has sort of a "player" reputation. He's gone out with a couple of my friends and they think he's using me to get popular. I'm pretty young so only a few people in my grade makeout and they think that he's using my to be popular and makeout and kiss and everything. I've kissed him but i refused to mke out, He asks me every once in awhile but i always have the same answer.How do i know if he really likes me?I'm 12 years old ad i know i asked this before but i didnt really get a staright answer that i felt good with.
2007-03-22 07:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stand by what you say, because you could possibly end up with a bad reputation from your friends turning on you, or him telling everyone lies. This does not always happen in this situation, but boys have issues in trying to figure out who they are and their purpose, unlike girls who know what they want and what they want to be, for now...I have learned that it is human nature that if you stick to what you feel and don't give in you will reel him in like a fish on a hook, because if you do what he says and wants, he will think that any guy can tell you what to do. Hold your ground girl, don't give in and he will .
2007-03-22 07:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by jonni_richter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 12 years old. You are way too young to have a boyfriend. Focus on your education and not worry about boys right now. Since your "boyfriend" has a player reputation, he is using you. The best thing that you can do for yourself is to cut this boy loose. You want this gentlemen to respect you because you respect yourself right? Cut him off. He only likes you because you are popular in school. That's it. Hard to believe, but true. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-03-22 14:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is called on the job training. Learn from you experiences. If you and your boy friend are 12 then your both to young and dumb to have a clue about relationships. Of course he's using you and your using him. Just be 12, have fun, stop trying to be all grown up - it isn't that great.
2007-03-22 14:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to what u have said, i think he does, cuz if he really was interested in you he wouldnt be insisting in makeout with u, instead of doing that he would try to make u feel he really loves u and cares about but just sking once and not any more till u say u r ready or u wnat to.
2007-03-22 14:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by bigshot_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years old is a bit young...
2007-03-22 14:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by almostdeadman1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre 12, what are you talking about bofriends and guys using you?
2007-03-22 14:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOOK do me a favor dump him.SOUNDS like he wants in your pants to score points with the boys.
2007-03-22 14:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie, if you feel like he's using you, then he is. go have fun being young, you have your whole life to worry about boys!
2007-03-22 14:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by chloeejoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't you a little bit young to have " such a problem" ?
2007-03-22 14:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you actually have real problems worth asking about.
2007-03-22 14:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋