I love this guy a lot, we kiss and cuddle when we hang out. I am not his girlfriend because he doesn’t want a commitment. He likes to go clubbing. A week ago, I slept over at his place and he hasn’t contact me since then. I feel so hurt…
2007-03-22 07:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by 7683 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems he has no respect for you. Yes, I'd say he's playing you. Move on. And don't let it rent too much space.
2007-03-22 07:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first red flag should have went up when he told you he didn't want to commit. Then I don't have anything against the club but a guy who always wants to go should be another red flag.
Basically it seems like he wants to get the goodies from you then be able (not being commited) to go the the club and get nasty with all other girls.
Leave him alone he is a master of playing with your heart.
2007-03-22 14:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by kaliprincess82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't commit to just the boyfriend/girlfriend level, then you're screwed in this relationship even if he does call you back. He's emotionally unavailable, so no matter how much cuddling you do, it's not real. If he's not into you enough to get over his issues and really be with you and appreciate you he's not worth your time!
2007-03-22 14:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by fleurhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...he's a player hun...but he is a player that kinda sorta likes ya too! He needs to have his ego checked at the door darling...so hang him out to dry next time he wants to have a sleeping event with you sweetie. He's being a cadd to you obviously. I say hang with his best friend and do a little hugging and kissing babe. He'll get the message in that observance anyways...wouldn't ya think? Everyone likes a little bit of cuddling babe...just usually we like to do it with someone that's gonna at least call us the next day. I'm a guy hun...and I'd feel pretty darned guilty if I didn't at least call ya and tell you what a wonderful time I had and enjoyed with you anyways. He's a little bit of a tird babe. It's pretty darned difficult to polish a tird anywho! Get a new guy sweetie...cause this one ain't for you babe.
2007-03-22 14:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already told you he does not want a commitment. You decided anyway to sleep with him and now you feel hurt because he has not called you. What did you think, that he was gonna fall madly in love with you because you slept with him? He is only out to sleep with as many girls as he can. If you want to continue to be just one of many, then continue to sleep with him. If you feel you deserve better because of the beautiful person you are, then get better than what he has to offer you. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-22 14:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what type of guy he is...he's likes to go clubbin and don't want commitment so he can f u c k whoever he get....Thats it you got hurt he only wanted one thing and he got it and left you along.......you should have known better
2007-03-22 14:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds more like you are playing him. you don't want to commit however you enjoy sleeping around with him and acting like his girlfriend. he probably found somebody that does want a relationship with him instead of just a hook up. be happy for him. you are both getting what you want now.
2007-03-22 14:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you have sex with him? Maybe that's why. If not, then it may be time for you to move on. Either way, you still should move on to something else.
2007-03-22 14:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm he is so playing dump that guy and find an another guy
2007-03-22 14:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW THIS IS SO HARD TO DO BUT DO NOT CALL OR SEE HIM! EVENTUALLY HE WILL START BUGGIN' YOU!
2007-03-22 14:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋