Need urgent help! He don' like me in dat way! I am 13 nearly 14
2007-03-22 07:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Katja ie tattybow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i think he doesn't like me in dat way! i'm not sure!
2007-03-22 07:19:34 · update #1
Give it some time, you have plenty of time for things to happen.
If you really want to know if he fancies you, flirt with someone else. If he gets jealous he likes you back.
2007-03-22 07:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know for sure he doesn't like you in that way, then it's a lost cause. Don't waste your time. If you are not sure, then first you need to think about the relationship you have now. You are friends and sometimes trying to be more than friends destroys the relationship and if he isn't interested you might end up without his friendship. That being said, the only way to know for sure is to tell him exactly how you feel, why you feel that way and see what he says.
2007-03-22 14:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first relax, take a deep breath, and then think about it a little: if you say, he's not thinking of you in that way, then you shouldn't go and ask him out. talk to him about you and him try to find out why he isn't thinking about dating you? don't pop up the question like this, but have a little introduction conversation, and then ask, did you ever wander how would we look as a couple? or something similar, and if he says, he can't imagine you as his girlfriend, then just let it go, it's always better to have a good friend, than a relationship that doesn't work. and don't worry your friendship will remain as good as before, nothing will change. good luck.
2007-03-22 14:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...the innocence of puberty. The best way is to ignore him. Go hang out with your other friends (guys and girls). Let him see you are having some fun, if he fancies you he'll be on your tail in no time.
2007-03-23 04:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u av answerd this your self he dont like u in the way u like him so id treasure the friendship u never know when u get older things mite happen with out you rushing it x
2007-03-22 14:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u no he dosent like u he might be hiding is feeling for u just ask him see what his face is like if he has the look like hes guna say no just start laughting and say it was a joke it worked for me and if you dont got out with him treasur your friendship!!! good luck!!
2007-03-22 16:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow upfirst
2007-03-22 14:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by skool_gurl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a hard one.if you tell him then he might not want to be friends with you any more.but he might feel the same about you.think about it.its a chance you take.if you feel in your heart you love him.go for it
2007-03-22 14:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by dianaw2305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw how sweet
2007-03-22 14:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by bananas! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋