relationship advice please ! ! !?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been together for 6months and are very happy together, however it seems that we have fallen into a routine and do the same things all the time. do you have any ideas of new and exciting activities we can do or places to go. thanks

Answer 1

DOING THE SAME THING? LIKE WHAT? IF YOU WATCH MOVIES, GO TO A PLAY IF YOU LOUNGE AROUND THE HOUSE AND PLAY WITH THE DOG, GO TO A PARK. YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO CHANGE WHAT YOU ARE DOING JUST WHERE YOU ARE DOING IT

Answer 2

I know the feeling well, i have been with my fiance for 4 years and we have the same problem. I have found a few ways to keep things alive;

1. Be spontanius, cook suprise meals for when he gets home (or he can), dress in sexy clothes and suprise him with a dirty night in
2. Do something you don't normally do, go for walks or picnics. On the flip side of this try and do something he likes that you haven't tried and vice versa this will bring you closer together as well.
3. Go camping and visit places you haven't been to
4. Take up a hobbie together a good one to do i found was scuba diving you get to mix with some great people and can contiue this on holidays etc. It really is good fun and something very different.
5. Organise parties where friends can come over for poker evenings or meals or to watch a movie.

Anything can be fun really and take you out of your normal routine something as simple as a walk or cycle ride can really make a difference, try not to dwell on it too much as life does follow a routine just try and do at least one thing a week or fortnight that is out of the blue or something you wouldn't normally do. It breaks the day to day and gives your relationship that edge.

I hope this is what you were looking for!

[check out www.lastminute.com or www.redletterdays.com for different bits to do that suit both of your tastes]

Answer 3

Six months seems pretty quick to have fallen into a routine. How about going to a liabrary or art museum. Drive to a different town and go shopping for something. Change simple things. Create a random night of the week as date nite and have a romantic dinner either at home or out. He could bring you flowers for no reason. New sexual positions. Try phone sex with him upstairs and you on the couch downstairs.

Answer 4

u need to start putting zing back how about u go out with your mates he with his arrange to meet up as tho u on your first date take it from there u should still be in what they call the honeymoon period an u only been together 6 months imagin in another 6 month ?

Answer 5

Be a bit more descriptive on the routine part. As in life in general or in sex?

Answer 6

ok, definatelly falling in to a routing is not good, you gotta try many things, like i do, like each weekend go to a differrent place, somewhat like the movies, parks, clubs, and restaurants. that can give u guys a lil more exiting realationship.

Answer 7

go on holiday!!! have some fun but couples oftern fall into a routine thats just the way it is!!! good luck!!!

Answer 8

ok first do somethings u both like talk about sports do other things be side what u do all the time talk about sports,t.v,things that happend to each other that is funney talk about stuff that makes u both laugh ok

Answer 9

go on a trip to the mountains for the day or for a weekend.

Answer 10

yes use the things that your name implies & you will be choosing the places you go then.