I have a bf and he has been getting in2 unecessary trouble. Some ppl tell me2 stick it out. He wants 2 drop out of skool. Part of me tells me I should let him go and another part says that I should try 2 help him. But everytime I try, he acts as if he doesn't want to listen. I love him 2 much and if only he cleared his act, we could last it's just his attitude about things and how careless he acts sometimes. Wut should I do?????
2007-03-22 07:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant help someone that don't want to be helped....leave him along girl or you will end up in trouble with him....why go out with a loser anyone who drops out of school is a loser...there is no excuse to drop out of school
2007-03-22 07:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions: do you want to date a drop out? a guy that doesn't want to listen to the good advice you have to give? a guy that is careless?
if you answered no to any of these then you need to find a guy that has the qualities you want, now that you know the qualities you don't want.
find a guy that has goals and ambitions. one with those qualities is more likely to try in a relationship and not just place all the blame and work on you. a relationship takes two MOTIVATED people not just one.
2007-03-22 14:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best... If nothing comes out of it, then its fine, you tried and have nothing to feel guilty about cos your intentions were good. At the end of the day, it is his life and maybe there are some reasons you can't understand so you can't help it.
2007-03-22 14:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by oops1388 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is deciding how he wants to live his life and even though you may not agree with his choices, they are his choices to make. You are not his mother so stop acting like one. If he messes up his life then it will have to be something he will have to face. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't force him to drink.
2007-03-22 14:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to help him, but if he continues to do bad things, then you can't see yourself being with him. If he still doesn't want to listen...then it's time to move on!! He will only help himself when he wants to!! Not because you want him to change.
2007-03-22 14:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks so bad when you care about someone who is so immature... believe me I know!
You're better off without him. It's hard, and it hurts for awhile, but in the long run, you will be better off.
2007-03-22 14:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u think wil be better in the long run, nobody here can help u with it !!! xx
2007-03-22 14:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋