why do girls always make some thing out of nothing? just to start a fight?

Answer 1

because in our eyes it is something. its not our fault you guys dont put much thinking into a relationship. we get mad over things you think are little becuase little problems can esculate into big problems... get it?

Answer 2

It's normal for sibilings to argue and compete, but to what extent is a whole other story. I would try a different method.. you've been doing negative reinforcement by taking away toys and doing time outs and all.. and sometimes that stuff works.. othertimes it doesn't. What I would do is go the other way.. and use positive reinforcement. I'd create a reward chart.. where you can mark their area with stickers for everytime they help each other, each time they say something positive and complementary to each other.. and then let them know that after X number of stickers.. then they get some sort of reward.. A reward they would want.. maybe a trip to the movies, or a new toy or book.. The other thing I'd do too.. is with 4 girls.. I think you need to create date nights for each girl.. mother daughter date nights.. do it once a month.. Do something just you and your oldest daughter one night fora couple hours.. it could be going to the mall and get a shake, or catching a movie.. but the point is.. the individual time you spend with each child will give you the opportunity to learn more about them, what they think, and problems their having.. but it'll improve the communication.. you may find that they're taking some other stressful situation out on their sibilings.. who knows? But if you spend a date night or date afternoon with each child.. it will help build your relationship which will help them improve in behavior. And then you should have a family home evening night once a week if possible.. where say, every Monday night.. you and your girls and husband get together and play a board game as a family, or have a squirt gun fight as a family.. but doing things as a family. Many children when their not getting positive attention from their parents, will start acting out.. and sometimes children to get their parents' attention.. will do something negative to get their parents attention .. because let's face it.. a parent is more likely to comment andact on one child hitting another as opposed to one child sharing a toy with the other. Know what I mean ? So I think the spending time individual and as a family will help. And I think doing a reward chart for behaviors would help.. but with that chart, explain to them clearly what your looking to observe. And you can even put a twist on it, where they lose a sticker if they go the other way.. however you want to do it.. but it'll help reinforce good behavior. Finally I'd make sure the girls are assigned chores and held accountable for doing their chores... even your 4 year old can pick up toys, straiten magazines, put the old newspaper in the trash.. but they should all have a couple chores.. because in the end.. chores build character, and discipline.. but they also keep the child out of trouble.. because what is that saying.. idle hands are the hands of the devil or something? Another thing.. is for your family home evenings.. you can do something crafty.. but giving them a craft can be an emotional outlet as opposed to misbehaving to a sibling. Anyway.. hope this helps. Merry Christmas and my best wishes to you. P.S. Best of all.. you can start this as a new 2008 forward way of life. Just make sure you post a calendar so they can see when they have a scheduled date with you, or a Family Home Evening. That way they have something to look forward too, as do you.

Answer 3

Not all girls do that, but some do enjoy the drama or just to get attention. Or they pick fights to have makeup sex. Some girls also tend to interpret more than guys, or read behavior and words differently. Anyway, it just shows a lack of communication on both parts.

But the worst is when they won't tell you WHY they're upset, because it's so obvious you're supposed to know what you did. My response has usually been something along the lines of "Then don't be surprised when this **** happens again!"

Answer 4

Cuz Girls like attention

Answer 5

There's always a reason why we get mad.

The guys are just too thick-headed to know what it is.

Answer 6

You'll never be able to figure us out. Usually, we have good reasoning, but men never ever listen.

Answer 7

GIRLS ARE NOT THAT HARD TO FIGURE OUT...
JUST LISTEN AND PAY ATTENTION.
WE DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GET MAD AT ANYTHING FOR NO REASON, WELL... UNLESS THEY ARE JUST CRAZY AND HAVE THERE OWN ISSUES.

Answer 8

cus we luuuV it wen dum guys *** bak and beg 4 us 2 4giv dem cuz dey wer bein such ''jerks"

Answer 9

THEY LOVE DRAMA