If you could have any 5 things below in your ideal partner/relationship, what 5 would they be?
Chemistry/Shared Spirituality,
Good Values/ Loyalty,
Good Conversation,
Attractive,
Good Job/Financial IQ,
Responsible/Good Around House/Competent Parent/Partner,
Shared Hobbies/Interests.
Good Sex
Are you a man or woman?
How many do you have with your partner now? Which ones?
BE HONEST. I have 4 at most (out of the 8) but I'm thinking this is pretty good given the last few relationships I've been in.
Is this sad or just realistic?
2007-03-22 07:02:52 · 10 answers · asked by waitingtoinhale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NUMBERED::
1) Chemistry/Shared Spirituality,
2) Good Values/ Loyalty,
3) Good Conversation,
4) Attractive,
5) Good Job/Financial IQ,
6) Responsible/Good Around
House/Competent Parent/Partner,
7) Shared Hobbies/Interests.
8) Good Sex
2007-03-22 07:04:44 · update #1
The next guy I date will attractive, has a job, good conversation, and good values. Otherwise, he's gotta get to stepping.
2007-03-22 07:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a woman and i would choose these
#1 good values/loyalty
#2 good job
#3good conversation
#4 responsilbe/good parent ect..
#5chemistry
#6attractive
#7shared hobbies
#8 good sex
in ordor #1 is the most important and #8 is the least important
and i think you should add honesty in all things i cant be with someone that lies
i have 6 and 1/2 lol it would be 7 but he is changing jobs right now so in about two weeks it will be 7
2007-03-22 07:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant judge a relationship by these things alone. To me TRUST should be the base of any realtionship. My husband and I can sit and talk for hours, I love being with him. We have a very strong Sexual Chemistry. But if I couldn't trust him, then the relationship would never work. He has a great job but we don't care about that. He likes what he does and that is what is important. We don't have any shared hobbies. But to me that isn't important. He does the outside work (except my flower garden) and I do the inside work. He does help me alot though. Mostly by taking the kids to the park so i can get more work done with out having to pick up after everyone as I clean. But I am the type of person that if I don't do it it is not done right.LOL To me my husband is the most attractive man in the world. We do share good values and we both are very loyal to each other. A relationship is very hard and takes allot of work. But if you truley love the person then It will be worth all of the stuff you have to put up with. Learn as much as you can about them and also share everything about yourself with them. Be completely honest about everything. If they accept you for all your flaws, marry them. I did. We have been very happy for 11 years. And I expect to be with married to him for the rest of my life. Learn to talk about the things that bother you as soon as you see them. If you hold things in you can grow to hate the person you are supposed to love. Good Luck!! I hope that I helped a little.
2007-03-22 07:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, who is single.
Good values/loyalty- I do not want him to cheat on me because I would not do that to him
Good Conversation- I will not talk a lot in the beginning because I am shy, but when i get comfrotable, I won't stop talking.
Good Sex-that's important
Responsible- I do not want to take care of anybody I am not
married to.
Sharing Hobbies because will have something to do
2007-03-22 07:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive, Chemistry, Loyalty, Good Conversation, Good Around House
I'm a woman, and currently, none of those.
4, I would say is pretty good. and not sad, just realistic. atleast you're not lying to yourself.
2007-03-22 07:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want:
1.chemistry/shared spirituality
2.good values/loyalty
3.shared hobbies/interests
4.good sex
5.good job/financial IQ
i am a woman and in the relationship i am in now i would say we have 6 out of 8...which is really good and im pretty excited about =]
2007-03-22 07:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by bob123456789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Chemistry/Shared Values
2. Good converstaion
3. Good sex
4. Attractive
5. Shared hobbies/interests
I am woman!
I have all eight with my fiance.
2007-03-22 07:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-3-8-4-2. I am a woman and I have probably just one. #8 and it's not holding us together like it used to.
2007-03-22 07:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8,7,4,5,1....in that order.
I am a man and have probably only 2 of those.
2007-03-22 07:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by kaptn35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1,2,3,4,7
I am a single man
2007-03-22 07:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋