also interested, and willing, even though she is involved in a commited relationship that the man who hit on her is aware of. More than once he was very insistant in his interest his attraction was obvious. Recently when together with a group, he came up to the man she is living with and said that he should pay more attention to her, why would a man say this? Is he having second thoughts? giving warning? or could there be another reason, he is not friends with the man, just on friendly terms when they are in the same group together, so why would he make the suggestion to pay attention to the lady that he himself is interested in?
2007-03-22 06:57:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is making it quite clear that if the boyfriend doesn't pay more attention to her then he is moving in.
2007-03-22 08:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as for me i think that there sure are three reasons for what he warned the man. 1. his wanning the man that if he doesnt puts much attention to her she might end up getting together with someone else. 2. his warning the man that shes much of an attraction and that any man like himself would get interested and would try to get in a relationship with her, and she might do so if the man puts more effort and pays much attetion to her. 3. his warning the man that he does care about the lady and if he doesnt puts much attention to her, she would leaving him, even though the attracted guy is not the cause of why she leave him.
2007-03-22 07:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by bigshot_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he has strong enough feelings for you that, even though he knows that he can't have you, he wants you to be happy.
I am in the same sitch, I am really attracted to a girl who is engaged and her fiancee takes her for granted sometimes. I know that she doesn't like when he does that so I step up and tell him that he needs to treat her better or he will lose her.
Better that the one you love is happy with someone else than miserable with someone else.
2007-03-22 07:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the dude was warning the guy. Because if the guy who has the woman doesn' t pay attention to her then the dude will. I hoped that made sense
2007-03-22 07:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's a Co.ck bag, More men need to learn some respect. You know a woman would at least have the curtisy to walk up to the other woman and simply say "im ******* your boyfriend" but no, men have to be all coy and simple about it because believe it or not women have WAAAAAAAAAAYYYYY more balls then men do.
2007-03-22 07:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me, he's trying to give the guy a warning that if he doesn't take care of things, then he will be stepping in.
2007-03-22 07:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE he is in fear of rejection.
2007-03-22 07:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well duh. he is obviously interested in her. also he likes the drama of hitting on someone elses girl.
2007-03-22 07:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋