Me and my ex-boyfriend dated for 6 yrs. We were each others first everything. We have been broken up for 6 months and he still desperately wants me back. Now, the down fall of all of this is that he was seeing another girl for 3 yrs of our relationship.. He swears that they never did anything (sure) . I love him so much and I gave him another chance and it would just eat me up so bad that I would have break-downs and to know that the guy I put all my work, love, and true honesty to has been lying to me and I just felt like our relationship was based off of a lie. When I gave him a second chance we moved in together and things just got worse. We grew apart and I was his friend more than his girlfriend. We would have sex like once a month. I got tired of it and left. He really is trying his hardest to show me that he is trying to change and wants to be with me but how do I know he isnt feeding me lies again?He told me yesterday that she called him and wants to hang out.what should I do
2007-03-22 06:53:43 · 8 answers · asked by anonomous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl stop trying with him just move on he is no good for ..fine second chances are ok but not 3 chances..c'mon he had a relationship with another chic for 3YEARS!!! while he was with u...keep it movin
2007-03-22 06:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure I would have to say no. I agree with how you felt that the relationship was just a "game" in his eyes. I recently went through that. I was with my ex for 2 1/2 years and he was my first love. And, he cheated on me twice...and same story he NEVER did anything (unlikely here also), but I finally left after the 2nd time....and WOW I am very very happy now!! And, you stated you had already given him a shot and even moved in with him and it only got worse. My guess is that there is no hope there and it just was not meant to be!! I would live the single life and see what else is out there. You need to find someone who is truly about you and only you, and I do not feel that your ex was only about you! There is someone out there for you....you just need to keep looking and one day HE will find YOU!!
2007-03-22 07:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, he must, by his actions and NOT by his repeated lies, prove that he is trustworthy. He is clearly taking advantage of the fact that you are far too forgiving and he will continue to rip your heart out. Let him suffer what you have lived and maybe it will convince him to grow up and begin to act like a man instead of a greedy little boy who wants all of the toys.
2007-03-22 07:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You new the answer before you wrote down the question. But he does need a steady when he's not with the homies, or his real girlfriend.
2007-03-22 07:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Perry B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have given him a second chance. Use your head and move on.
Ancient Proverb: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times, WHAT THE FRIG ARE YOU THINKING!!! THERE IS NO PROVERB FOR A THREE TIME FOOL!
2007-03-22 07:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by onefineham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....he will never change and you are not a door mat. He should have thought about this before he did what he did. Don't you deserve better?
2007-03-22 06:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anita G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fool me once shame on you.. fool me twice.. shame on me..... dont give him a third chance... it seems you dont love him anymore... and he doesnt seem like he deserves your attention
2007-03-22 07:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he blew it, find someone better
2007-03-22 06:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋