my best friend still really likes her ex, and i try to be there for her, but i dot know how to tell her that he doesnt like her anymore! and the worst part is, i think im starting to like him! i know that i can't do it but i can't help it! and im pretty sure he likes me too. how can i talk to her? is there any chance this would turn out ok for the two of us? how should i comfort her when she finds out?
2007-03-22 06:46:11 · 5 answers · asked by Lilmissme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO it would not be right for you to date your best friend's ex, that is breaking the number one best friends rule, you never date someone your best friend has dated. He is off limits.
2007-03-22 06:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take a chance on ruining a good friendship because good friends are hard to find.....You don't know how this will turn out for you and him if you do decide to pursue anything but, I know you may defintley lose a friend. You "trying" to be there for her, I think was more your advantage into seeking the feelings you have for him. It's not your place to tell her how he feel about her, thats something he needs to do if he's a "Man". I wouldn't ever think of disrespecting myself by seeking an ex of my best friend. If you are really her best friend than you wouldn't even be feeling this way about a guy your friend is still in love with. You may have to evaluate your meaning of "FRIENDSHIP"!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 14:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anytin tat really makes her MAD! tat will b suicidal! in her case..u muz actually ask her ex to tell her str8 to her face to make her wake up.its gonna b hurt but its better than she in her dreamwolrd tinkin her ex stil likes her and gotta hurt again but tis time very deeply!
2007-03-22 13:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by aw_farid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess up a good thing with your friend!!!!
Tell him to get lost and leave you alone!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 13:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur going to loose one of them.... sorry!! cant have the best of both worlds
2007-03-22 13:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋