My boyfriend and I went to a party with a big big group of us,stupidly enough he got so drunk that at the end of the night he passed out.I had to leave at around 2 so I went , leaving a few others there including my 'best friend' . A few hours later she got in his bed without him realising, when he woke up the next morning he told her to get out . and she did . she said to him dnt tell her until I do, which she didnt do , me and her had an arguement seing as she wasnt suposed to be staying there, even if it had been on the sofa.This is wer she made me feel very bad for asuming anythin had happened with them anyway seing as he had told me she slept on the sofa.So i believed her as most people would.The next wkend my boyfriend seemed off with me, and he decided to just tell me what hapend, and he said I wanted to tell u but she told me I shouldnt until she had.What do I do ? . A month later now its like they expect me to be fine with them sein each other now n then.is that right?
2007-03-22 06:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was a "one" time event and alcohol was mainly to blame, I'd say try to put it behind you all, but if they are still seeing each other, and mostly behind your back because you disapprove, I'd say there are real problems in your relationship and you need to find a b/f who doesn't lie and cheat. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-22 06:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be upset. First of all he shouldnt have lied to you, second of all it shouldnt have happened, and even if he was drinking it doesnt make an excuse, if he does those kind of things when he drinks then he shouldnt drink. And also you should let him know that you arent going to stand for him lying, if he cares about you- then no matter what anyone else tells him, he should be 100% honest and truthful with you! And if you have any other questions you can email me. naenichole_15@yahoo.com because I am fairly good with these situations, me and my boyfriend have been dating nearly a year. :)
2007-03-22 13:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the girl's fault. Your BF was drunk and passed out... there is NO WAY he would have let her stay in that bed if he wasn't. I would let them hang out or talk or whatever but I would be really mean and stern about it. Like, don't make it sound like ur ok with it when ur really not. Make sure you keep an eye on them, too... just incase.
2007-03-22 13:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by nutterbuttersoymilk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was past out, so dont really blame him, SHE was the one that got in his bed knowing hes urs. so id kill her. and well id be mad at him too for not tellin me.
hmmm i would not like to be in that situatuion, i beat both theyr asses.
2007-03-22 13:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if nothing happened... nothing happened.... damn... relax... but your so called best-friend is interested in your bf... it will happen only if your best-friend is hot.
2007-03-22 13:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋