when your are dating and in a relationship and you have
your income and he have his,do you think that in relationship
that you two help each other even if you don,t live together
isn,t it if i am broke you help me and vice versa?
does it make you money hungry if Your are out of money
and sometimes it happen no matter how much you save
shouldn,t your mate come through especially if you help them
2007-03-22 06:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if they are able it would be nice if they could help you out. but it is not an obligation just because you are dating.
2007-03-22 06:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel, when you're married you should have joint bank accounts..you are both equal. But I feel, when dating...your money is your money and his is his..unless like you said..one needs help till their paycheck comes in., then you can lend that person the money but expect it to be paid back as in some relationships..one partner earns more and the other takes advantage of that...borrows money till their pay comes in then doesn't pay it back. It really depends on the partner you're with. Hope that helped* Everybody has their own views on it.
2007-03-22 13:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that when something unexpected comes up and i dont have the money..IF my boyfriend has the money he would help me in a second (and vise versa)..Its just the nice thing to do for ANYONE you care about..
2007-03-22 13:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the couple should help each other out. If its always one sided I can see the hesitation, but I think you should help eachother out I think that it is important to be there for eachother in all aspects of the relationship
2007-03-22 13:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by 45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY!! If he has it to give and you've given to him when he was in need then I would even go as far as to ASK him for some help. You should have no shame about doing that if you guys love each other. And he should have no problem helping his girl out!!
2007-03-22 13:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by peaceseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you guys have a serious and good relationship of course I think your boyfriend/girlfriend should help each other out. You are supposed to have each other's back.
2007-03-22 13:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably best to keep money out of things unless you're living together or married.
2007-03-22 13:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle118 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really would depend on how long you have been in a relationship and also if it is chrontic situation (lending/borrowing money).
2007-03-22 13:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK if you help him he should help you back.BUT if he dont help you now, dont help him no more .PUT it in the bank.IF he ask tell him you dont have it right now. BE STRONG. THAT should tell you how he is going to treat you after you get married too.
2007-03-22 13:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess so but it depends on the person...
2007-03-22 13:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋