Some of you know the story already... Well through this meeting the only thing I gathered was that I don't really know what she is upset about. The things I apologized for, were obviously not what she is offended by, and she is unwilling to communicate. So my question is how do I get her to tell me what is on her mind. I love her more than anything, and I'd like some SOLID answers this time, please. Moving on is a cop out for people that don't want to try and work their issues out with people. Giving space is understandable however, because everyone needs their own space. Letting go is not an answer either, unless by letting go you mean unconditional forgiveness. I just want to know what's really wrong, what she is really upset about. Any REAL answers appreciated.
2007-03-22 06:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try saying what you have just said here . hope you get it sorted.
2007-03-22 06:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME how you did something that she is mad or up set about. JUST flat out ask her before some other male takes her a way from you 4 ever. DID you cheat or look at another woman? or go on line with some one else? YOU know some women cant handel that, if you did. HONESTY is the best here.IF she dont answer you then tell her you will wait, till she can give you an answer because you need to know.
2007-03-22 06:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it - in her eyes you are a has been. You're history friend. Don't bash your brains trying to find out why, you probably know already, all you want is confirmation from her so that you can dispute the facts. Moving on and giving space is not a cool answer, but it is the truth. Let go.
2007-03-22 06:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by MaggieSA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish my ex was like you maybe we would still be together. But anywooo....I would sit her down face to face and ask her to just be real and truthful with you. I mean you two are already broken up so their's really no reason why she can't tell you what's on her mind. So hopefully you guys can patch things up!!
2007-03-22 06:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mate im sorry to say this but if she doesnt wana talk about it then there is nothing you can do maybe if you give her time then she will when she feels ready.. i went thru this wi ma boys father he had an affair i wanted to talk things thru he didnt an no amount of pushing is gonna change the result we no longer have contact an i still feel angry towards him fact of life im afraid there will come a time when she will open up, my ex tried an i was past caring what he had to say
2007-03-22 07:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..wat about asking her fren for help.mayb they can help u out.For me,iin this situation, u shld take her to one room and have a one to one and meaningful chat and if she tries to avoid it then use some force(not physically) try pyschologically of which mayb u can dig up e ans u need.
2007-03-22 06:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by aw_farid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your feelings in a letter and ask her .
2007-03-22 06:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Earwigo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will never tell you bcuz she doesn't know herself.some are like that,very blunt.
2007-03-22 16:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by alec. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋