ok sooooo..... this is what happened.......
my friend had gone out with this guy named Mikah and she dumped him, so he asked ME out , and i said yes becuz she had told me that she was over him already and that she didn't care, ..........but after a month of going out with him, he cheated on me and went to my friends house and made out with her!!!!!!!!! i was sooo mad when i heard this, and iimediatly asked him y he did it. He said he did it because he is an idiot!!!!! so that night we had a really long talk and i asked him to make a decition , who does he want????me or my friend!!!!!!!???????? and kissed me and then asked "does that anwser ur question?" i said yeah,....i guess....... , two days later he broke up with me for my friend .........(that backstabbing lier!!!!!) .....but ne waz i guess that she broke up with him, and now he's single, and he keeps on callin' me saying that he wants me back!!!!!!and that he'd do anything for me and all this stuff!!!! so idk what to do?????
2007-03-22 06:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my the answer is pretty clear! He left your friend and got with you, then left you for your friend....now that your friend left him he wants you again. It is obvious he just wants someone and to him it does not matter who! I think you would be making a huge mistake to play these games with him. I have went through a lot with my ex and believe me he made many promises to me and not a thing had changed. I was with him for 2 1/2 years too. I left about 4 months ago now and wow, am I a lot happier. there are so many other guys out there and there is someone else for you. Do not waste anymore time on him plzzzzz. This guys sounds like bad news to me!!!
2007-03-22 06:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the details of your situation....you can tell that you, your friend, and your "lover boy" are young. I'd say you shock everyone and say you don't need stupid drama like that in your life, you're over it, and tell Mikah that what he did it's the reason why women date older men. Boys cheat, men don't. Call him out on that and voice how it made you feel. Tell him that he put you in a really crappy situation and because of his childish ways, you lost trust in him and your friend so why the hell should I go right back in a relationship for you to do that to me again. Let someone else deal with his drama. If he cared about you so much, he wouldn't have kissed your friend and started 'high school drama'. The *** is not worth it and karma will get him.
I hope that you know that this boy is too young to know what real love is. All he knows is that it's the "cool" thing to have a pretty girl under his arm, roam the halls with, talk to, and hang out with at time after school. Boy don't start turning into men until college and even some don't start turning into men until years after. It might be hard, but start looking at the guys you date as just someone to kill time with. Chances are you won't end up long term with any of them and you'll thank yourself of that years later. Seriously.
2007-03-22 14:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by platinum_civic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look even wit my gf 4 11 month an it has been the best. Yeah we got in arguments cause i kiss these other girl but i was not thinkin straight . Yeah she asked me the same question who do u want an i kiss her an said those that answer ur question. seens then i havent done that cause i luve her. But wat ur ex-bf did was wrong how is goin 2 kiss u an say those that answer ur question. but let me get 2 the point ok. talk 2 him u kno some were everyone can seeu guys talking. ask him why he did that. an if his answer makes sense 2 to u and u still luv him give him one moe chance cause luv comes only ones in a live time.
2007-03-22 14:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See some guys really dont know what they want .so it like they change gf's like they chage thier underwear. They try to find that perfit pair and when they have it they dont wanna lost it. But now that they messed up and lost it they want it back.he did relize what he had until you was gone or until some body else had you.Jus for get about him you find somebody that wont do you wrong .There are other fish in the sea.
2007-03-22 13:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by missnewshawty_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama! stay away from him.. and for future reference.. do not mess up friends bf with your own.. once they break up.. is for a reason.. so you should not go and pick up 2nds... really there are too many guys out there ... =) good luck
2007-03-22 13:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that guy thinks with his hormones and not his brain. You can't trust him. If he did it once he'll do it again.Why do you put up with that guy? Is he really worth it? I doubt it.
2007-03-22 13:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by jesus_lover1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat it just find u a new bf.
2007-03-22 13:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tia J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away
2007-03-22 13:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him
2007-03-22 13:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋