I know this guy for more that ten years, barely talked to him, just a hello once in a while....A month a go i saw him in town and he invited me for a cup of coffee. He gave me his phone number, i gave him mine but he never called..After two weeks he did and i invited him to my house. We had sex, and the day after..Then i left town for ten days and when i came back he phoned me the next day and he came to my house, almost uninvited and he wanted to have sex, i refused....He never called since then, i send him an sms a few days after, he called back and visited me at my house late at night. We had sex again. Now he's gone. i can't seem to stop thinking about him......I know he is not worth it, but there are a few signs that show me he might be interested in something more.....How can i ask without looking needy?
2007-03-22 06:34:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its probably only sex.
Ask him to go out and do something not at your house.
THe fact that he likes to have sex with you doesn't mean he has no other interests. But he hasn't given us much indication yet that he has any other interest in you. You don't need to ask directly, just suggesting going out and see what happens.
2007-03-22 07:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this.. but it's only for the sex.
In August.. I met this awesome guy.. I really liked him a lot. After two weeks of being friends.. We started having sex.. He was like.. the whole package.. We had a lot in common, like our obsession with coffee and music. His car.. and he was an all around Sweetie Pie! So yeah.. I couldn't resist.
But.. things started to get uncomfortable.. like no more late night conversations. When I wasn't with him we wouldn't IM anymore.. and Idk.. it just hurt. So I started to just have sex with him, just so I could be with him. Call for desperation? Yes... But I liked him A LOT and all I wanted to do is be around him.
Just last Sunday.. I told him I don't think we should be doing this kind of thing anymore. Because it hurt. I let my emotions get to me. I thought i'd be better off.. and we both have great futures a head of us. So I didn't want to get in his way.. of his life. Unless he wanted in mine..
He hasn't talked to me since. But seriously... you're better off. It's hard at first but.. you'll get the hang of it after awhile.
Email for questions. and Good Luck. Hope you make the right choice.
2007-03-22 06:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best thing you can do is be HONEST! I mean dont sound like you are too needy but just tell him that you really like him and you would like to see him everyday, something like that and if he does not respond then you know what that means, time to move on.
Good luck sweetie!
2007-03-22 06:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a mistake you did
this sort of guys re interested only in one sort of girls
they used to go to pub have a drink and have a girl
to the girl its OK she only wants him for the night
to him it is OK because he wants her for the night
if then she was good
and if he find no other girl for the night
then may be he will drop a visit
do not expect more than that
2007-03-22 06:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally sounds like he is in it for the other sex. I mean there is basically no question. You said there are other things what makes you think otherwise? Good luck
2007-03-22 06:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK when a man looks you up 4 only sex he has no respect 4 you or his self. IT dont sound good to me.cut him loose move on. YOu deserve better.
2007-03-22 06:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask sorry to tell you hunny its just sex. If a guy really cares you dont have to wonder. Good luck.
2007-03-22 06:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and see how he answers. As long he knows you're putting out he's gonna keep coming until he wants something else.
2007-03-22 06:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aint putting out he aint interested. Suptoyou
2007-03-22 06:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever your relationship has consisted of thus far is what he's interested in.
2007-03-22 06:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋