I just broke up w/my boyfriend last night, because i just didn't feel the same way for him as he did for me. We were dating for 4 mths and his mom is sick with cancer and his dad just had a heart attack. That made me feel like a *****, but i couldn't stay with him because i have no feeling for him, and he has them for me. But i let him down easily and he said he understood and that we could be friends but then today at school it was really akward when i was around him and he told my sister that he hated me and that we couldn't be friends but i could keep all the stuff he gave me. and he punched a hole in his wall last night. so i just dont know what to do and i need advice.
2007-03-22 06:33:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's hurt that you didn't be there for him during that tough time, but then again, you can't stay with him and feel sorry for him just because of that, he'll blame you for it, talk to him, support him, help him move on
2007-03-22 06:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space it sounds like like he has a lot going on and is very angry. You did the right thing. Regardless of what people say it is hard to be friends with someone you date after a break up. Give it time and hopefully things will be less awkward and hopefully you will be able to be friends. Stay strong
2007-03-22 06:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by flair4pres 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes nw under lots of pressure and also kinda depress rite nw from the looks of it. But i believe its right of u to end it since initially there isnt any chemistry and its bad to carry on a r/s wic doesnt even exist in e first place.u dun feel bad but actually sympathetic towards him..let him cool down first and try to avoid him these few dayz..it will be betta for both of ya.
2007-03-22 06:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by aw_farid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was in a really bad situation with his parents before you broke up with him but breaking up with him made it twenty times worse.... hes really depressed now... and he punched the wall because hes thinking his life is going to hell...theres two courses you could take..
you can try to be friends with him... reassure him... but the problem with that is that you guys just broke up... so thats not the wisest choice sometimes... i think the best choice is to just keep the distance for now.. let him think things through... have his friends reassure and support him... and in a couple weeks or something... talk to him... ask him how hes doing.. try to establish a friendship with him again...
2007-03-22 06:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just going trhough a though time, hes losing his parents and he just lost u, he probably feels like everything he has is falling apart. and hes reacting with anger, give him space, u cantmake urself have feeligns for a guy so just let him be. dont go back to him because u feel bad about whats happening to him, go back to him cuz u have feelings but if u dont then just let him get over u.
2007-03-22 06:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a jackass. You could have at least pretended to like him until things with his family got better. Now you added on to all the misery that is plaguing him right now. Couldn't you wait a week, or two more weeks? I hope he does not do anything crazy now....
2007-03-22 06:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space, the only solution to this is time so wait a while before approaching him again.....understand that evertime he sees you, it reminds him of what he lost...so you NEED to give him space, time to cool off
2007-03-22 06:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try me!!!
2007-03-22 06:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋