ok ive had sex wit the same guy about a hundred or more times...and i still havent experience one.. or maybe i have..how does it feel?? or how do i get one???
2007-03-22 06:31:15 · 26 answers · asked by ~MARY~ k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'd know if you had one believe me...
try positions that feel really good and stick with them...
if you're on the bottom roll your hips in a circle over and over...
That doesn't work tell him "Hello... in need of completion over here."
--Lee Ann
2007-03-22 06:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some strange questions for you. Some may not apply:
Have you ever mastrabated? If no, then it isn't surprising that you won't have an orgasm as they don't come easily, you need to know how to use the muscles in your boby. Try running you privates under the bathtub facet.
Also, you probably won't have an orgasm if your husband enters you right away. It takes lots of foreplay. Making him live up to his responsabilities.
Finally, does it feel like you need to pee at anytime while you are masturbating or having sex? If so, read the following:
It is a normal feeling for many women (the pee feeling). The lucky women known when and orgasm is coming, but the unlucky women confuse it with the 'pee feeling' and out of fear of wetting themselves they stop, thus keeping themselves from having an orgasm.
Not too long ago women didn't have any places to go and get advice.
Remember, the 'pee feeling' is actually the 'orgasm-feeling'. You may release a bit of fluid, but this isn't pee. More likely than not you will just have a really good orgasm. But you first need to let go, allow the feeling to envelope you.
If you are afraid to do this while having sex, you can try it by yourself in the bath-tub or shower, just so that you will know what will happen and what it feels like. When you are in the shower, their is no need to worry about accidentally peeing.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 02:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by quizzical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first started to have sex I didn't really get all the hype. I mean it felt OK but I didn't see the point. I didn't have an orgasm until I was on top. You know what feels good to you. Try different positions and find what feels good. To me an orgasm feels like a big relief, almost a tickling throb.
2007-03-22 13:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may have had one. Considering the fact that you have slept with this man several times...it must be good, because if you didn't you would continue to do it. But, an orgasm is the feeling of a chill going down your back and you may start to shake or just scream out to the top of your lungs, and you just get this hysterical feeling, like you can't control your motions or your tone of voice. You may say some things that you have never said or even dreamed up would say. but, I really think you have experienced one, and just didn't notice it. Try asking him to perform foreplay for u until you get one. Then you will be able to notice it!! Good Luck, and be safe!
2007-03-22 13:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, let me say that this may be graphic...okay there are 2 main ways for a girl to orgasm, clitoral and the g-spot, i've found that the easiest way to get a girl to orgasm is to stimulate the clistoris by way of oral sex, if he's not good at that, then there are several positions that make it easy to stimulate the G- spot, but those require some work and the girl being open to different positions. but he should be pretty good at oral just by nature...It's a guy thing...if he's not or he wont do it, then dang it, find someone who will...........assuming of course that you are of an age that you should be worrying about this kind of thing, Good luck and/or happy hunting
2007-03-22 13:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU WOULD KNOW IF YOU DID.
#1. What it feels like
That can't be explained but stomach muscles and pelvic muscles tighten involuntarily you lose your breath you tremble all over you might scream or you might not be able to say anything or you might start speaking jibberish.
#2 How to get one.
The easiest way is to stimulate the clitoris (the clit). Yes this is what I like to call the "Hot Button" You can get a vibrator and various other toys to please yourself. You can use your hand but you dont sound too sure of what to do.
A partner can help you by placing you in different positions like doggystyle and letting you get on top. Go online and lookup sexual positions.
Hope this helps
Nicole
2007-03-22 14:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by awynter77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion an orgasm is that point during sex where you have hit the peek. You might have these pleasurable spasms through your whole body or just down there. But, trust me, if you have one, you will know. Best way, i think? Play with the clitoris while you are having intercourse. If all else fails, you need a new man.
2007-03-22 13:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can experience an orgasm with the help of a few little toy like the rabbit, or the silver bullet, or my boy david's Cock!!!
2007-03-22 13:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hundred or more times? Maybe you wore out the part.
2007-03-22 13:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When his "man part" is going in and out, make sure that the top is rubbing your clitoris!!!
I can also tell you how to have a G-spot orgasm, but not here!!!
2007-03-22 13:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by Melrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋