ok, I went behind my BF's back & got the number to his business line that he wouldn't give to me. I also called some of the numbers that I found in his phone that belong to other women, I didn't say anything. I just wanted to see who would answer. He asked me if I knew his business line number because I called it to see if it was the right number & I said yes. He hung up the phone on me & didn't want to hear anything else I had to say.
He showed up @ my apart. last night drunk. So drunk that he was in the fetal position on the bathroom floor screaming & moaning. I offered to help him or take him to a hospt. & he told me to go away & leave him alone. He told me that I wasn't sh@#, called me an a@@hole, & said that I was a liar & didn't care about anyone but myself. I know what I did was wrong but do I deserve to be treated like this? Y doesn't he understand, Y can't he forgive me? He wouldn't even let me take care while he was sick. Please tell me I wasn't that wrong.
2007-03-22 06:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were sort of wrong, but so was he. If your his girlfriend, why didn't he give you his number at work? Something to hide? Whether it's true or not, that's what it implies! Calling the women's phone numbers, can't say I wouldn't have done the same, but we both know that it's not right.
He was a total asshole showing up drunk and then calling you names and not letting you take care of him. Why did he come over in the first place? If he just wanted to call you names, he could have done that over the phone. Why invade your space to abuse you!
2007-03-22 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men get upset about work numbers because if you get mad at him he doesn't want you to call a business number drunk or yelling or doing anything that could make him loose his job. His x's probably did this to him and he doesn't realise that you are trustworth with the number. Never abuse a business or work number, its not a nice scene believe me I had it happen to me. Tell him you are sorry and you will only call it if its an emergency or very very important. He was drunk and feeling sorry for himself, don't worry about him getting sick he did it to himself and you didn't feed him the alcohol so he will have to get over it. You were wrong about accessing the number, but he is over reacting to this. Don't be so hard on yourself, we all make mistakes and learning to talk as adults without yelling is being an adult. Getting drunk is childish and you have to learn to communicate because that is the most important thing in a relationship. Take care Heather
2007-03-22 06:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a drama queen! Sounds as if he is over playing his anger to make you feel guilty for what you did. Most guys who have nothing to hide would be upset but when cooled down, would be more concerned of your feelings of insecurity and would try to make it right. Obviously you have trust issues concerning your boyfrirend that led you to check out his numbers. I cannot understand why he cannot give you his business number. I have my boyfriends number of his employer. Honestly, I see his evasivness made your curiosity grow. Anyway, that was the first feeling I got after reading your question. Either he does not want you to know any of his business cause he is hiding something, or he does not trust you with the information and is afraid what you will do with it.
2007-03-22 06:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if you had a reason to look in the first place then you weren't wrong...and no guy should ever, EVER, say those kinds of things to a girl...if he's drunk and he can't control his words then he needs to get help....when i get drunk, i'm a fun happy drunk, not a lunatic. NO, you don't deserve this, and i don't get what the big deal is about havin your business line unless he's hiding something, do yourself a favor and get rid of him before you spiral down along his path. try to find yourself a nice guy who isn't gonna hide things or talk to you that way. Wow i'm so pissed from hearing this, i can't stand it when guys treat girls this way!
2007-03-22 06:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were kinda wrong, but not that wrong. The way he is acting you would think that you committed a mortal sin. He is acting very ignorant, I think. Leave him alone for awhile, don't talk to him, don't see him and watch how fast he comes around, he is just being an as.
2007-03-22 06:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's running around and got caught. Now he's mad, afraid your going to leave him. So he gets drunk, and pity for being sick, and attacks you for not trusting him. You should be ashamed, and dump him for treating him so bad.
2007-03-22 06:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Perry B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think that you deserved that... maybe you should try and explain why you were so eager to know his number... promise him that you would never call him on it... give him some time to calm down i suppose.. good luck
2007-03-22 06:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see why he got so angry over something so little. you got his number because you cared for him right? so shouldn't he love you all the more for caring about him? and if he gets that angry over something so little i would be cautious about what may happen in the future in worse situations. please be careful and choose wisely.
2007-03-22 06:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sounds a little crazy and insecure... you might want to just let him go and be single and rebuild yourself
2007-03-22 06:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by nothing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did WRONG! and you do deserve it
2007-03-22 06:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by PrimEvil 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋