Im 17 and i met this guy that is 28 on boost mobile and we talk on the phone i know that im young but what makes it so hard to belive tha he said he can wait to i turn 18 in about 7 months he has a child i dont want to get involved in baby mama drama. Can any of you can give me advice?
2007-03-22 05:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by airplanes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you are considering pursuing a relationship with this guy, two things: a) go SLOWLY and b) chances are he's apparently not a condom user... make sure he uses them with you.
If you're just iffy, then try the "let's be friends" routine. You are very young and that is a considerable age different plus baggage. Nothing wrong with baggage, but just take it slow if it's not what you're looking for.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 05:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My older bro is 28 and I'm 18... There is a huge gap in maturity between us and our friends. We're all looking for different things in life.
Being single rocks and besides, he's looking for a mommy for his child- you're still young, why waste your youth babysitting and playing mommy?
Go out, have some fun and in 5 years if the connection is still there then give it a shot
2007-03-22 05:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not a stupid question, that's a great question. at the start, if this became written on a relationship website, i could be slightly perplexed. Secondly, it merely sounds....goofy! single and not looking capacity, i'm single, just to respond to the question yet i'm not searching for absolutely everyone. this could be because of actuality that they are merely sparkling out of a broken, heart wrenching relationship and that they are emotionally unavailable on the 2nd or it ought to advise they're relatively not looking and merely hoping this is going to fall into their lazy lap! or perhaps it ought to advise they're single on the 2nd yet o.k. have a boyfriend or female pal whom they are actually not married to. You in no way extremely understand how deeply human beings define and dissect each and each notice. we are in basic terms given the suggestions to fill in, "Married, single, Widowed or Separated". besides the fact that if I had a boyfriend i might say i'm single because of fact there is not any room for a proof.... i think it relies upon on the place it became written. I stumbled for the era of a guy on a relationship website for singles who wrote on his profile, "Separated". the 1st element from my strategies became that he's Separated and dealing with a divorce. i began out to over learn what precisely he meant by using his, "Separated" status. finally, extremely of guessing I merely asked him, "Do you advise you're merely separated and arranged on the divorce to become very final? OR "Do you advise you're indignant and harm and want the marriage to artwork yet extremely of divorcing you're searching for for something extra useful for the 2nd? He spoke back, "the 2nd". a minimum of he became being uncomplicated yet he ought to get extra replies if he merely suggested he became "single". complicated, little doubt....
2016-11-27 22:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by quire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, find a younger one.
2007-03-22 05:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm yeah stop talking to him
2007-03-22 05:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋