I don't want to lose him even if we're just friends i'm still confused. It's been over 5 months and we still haven't sat down to talk about anything. The reason we split up was because of my weight problem and i've been working on that. He has a girlfriend right now and i don't want to do anything to jeapordize his relationship with her.
We had plans of marriage and we loved eachother a whole lot. Moving on has been very hard...
2007-03-22 05:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by norma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the first clue, HE DUMPED YOU.
Clue 2 you have a WEIGHT issue.
Clue 3 you probably put out.
Get over him, hit the gym and diet and get revenge by looking and feeling hot.
5 months you dont have a clue what the person is like.
2007-03-22 05:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get back together with a guy who dumped you and couldn't even give you a decent reason why? You say it's because of your weight problem, if that's the case I still don't see why you'd want to waste time on this loser. Honey, there are many many guys out there who will make better boyfriends, husbands and even just friends than this guy! He clearly doesn't have any respect for you and has obviously moved on. You should do the same! I know it's hard but don't waste your time trying to get this guy back, you will only end up hurt. Even if it's just as "friends", friends don't do this to you, friends respect each other and friends don't leave you in the dust because of how much you weigh.
Focus on yourself now, take care of you and leave this guy alone so that you can find a guy who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Good luck!
2007-03-22 05:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk and I wonder why it's so important to you to remain friends. Do you really want a friend like that?! Closure doesn't always come in the form we would like for it to, so if five months has passed and there's been no discussion related to the breakup it's not likely to happen. I know moving on is difficult, but you need people who are supportive and not likely to bail when you need them most. It doesn't sound like he made an effort to make you feel good about yourself. New girlfriends don't usually like their boyfriends having contact with an ex-g.f. so it may not be a good thing to expect the friendship to continue anyway. He's shallow....forget him if he doesn't treasure your friendship.
2007-03-22 05:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to keep a relationship with him? He dumped you remember. Plus he has a new girlfriend. Best to let sleeping dogs lie. Move on and work on yourself being happy and the best you can be. He's not worth the effort!!!
2007-03-22 05:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lori F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the relationship as it is... But keep on working on your negatives (Which broke your relationship). Don't overact in this kind of situations. If a guy is not looking at you, then the best thing is to avoid him. But sure one day he may turn back. Try to believe in yourself, that you can live without him....
2007-03-22 05:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by SEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm goin through the same thing, and i'm still talking to her, and she gets really uncomfortable when we start to talk about it, I get very sad when she gets uncomfortable, i'm moving to texas to get away from it LOL. i dont know how to get over it, i guess just stay busy
2007-03-22 05:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to me he is not worth having any type of relationship with...he is a jerk to brake up with you if it was over your wieght, i mean if you love someone that shouldnt really count...i know you will find someone better that God has for you if you just wait patiently... Good Luck....God Bless
2007-03-22 05:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋