My BFF is stealing my boyfriend. I know that i dumped him but i still like him a lot!! And now my ex asked her out but she said no, cause there's another guy that likes her. But I know he likes her and still likes me, so i don't know what to do. And now me and my ex are basically afraid of each other and won't talk for some reason. I need HELP!!!!
2007-03-22 05:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by we_love_him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dumped him. He's fair game. If you were mature, you'd wish them both all the best and lots of happiness together.
2007-03-22 05:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is an "ex" for a reason. Always remember that. And if your BFF ever actually thought about going out with your ex, then you need to get rid of her. She is not your friend. You know how guys have that saying 'bros before ho's", well i came up with "chicks before *****". It's that simple. No friend should ever go out with an ex of one of their friends. That's just crap. You broke up with the guy. Of course there are still going to be some feelings, but you need to accept that he is not the one for you and move on. Your life will be better once you realize that.
2007-03-22 12:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by lrigoidar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better tell him that you still care for him, he may be working on your best friend to make you jealous. I would also talk to your best friend and find out how good of a friend she really is and make sure she understands to stay off your territory. Although an ex, he is still considered your territory.
But don't forget that just cause your friend turned him down, doesn't mean he wont move on to another girl, so the best thing to do is bite the bullet and talk to him, before you loose him to another girl.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 12:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well rlly ( no offense) if u still luv him u shudnt hav dumped him in the 1st place. unless he dumped u in which case there's nuthin 2 be dun. u shud at least be happy that ur bff sed no.
if ur lucky she never will say yes and dum day u can get back 2gether in a way ( u and ur bf)
2007-03-22 12:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Reddevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend even though you are broken up with him you still like him a lot and would appreciate if she could be a good friend and stear clear of him. You may work it out with your ex and you may not, but don't let a guy come between a good friend! If she does go out with him after you tell her how you feel she is not a true friend. Real best friends understand you never date a friends ex out of respect. Remember, chicks before *icks!
2007-03-22 12:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by exaltedchick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You created this problem by dumping him in the first place so now you have to live with it. Grow up, girl. If you like him, why did you dump him? Once you 'ended' it he was fair game, you should think things through. No sympathy from me.
2007-03-22 12:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him. Let him go. I'd be surprised if your friendship could survive this little hissy fit you're throwing about someone liking your ex; your ex is going to see you as a controlling beeyatch and not want to be friendly either.
2007-03-22 12:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is your real BFF then she would not go against the rule and date your EX........and she will not be stealing him because he is not your bf any more but it would be dirty if she goes out with him
2007-03-22 12:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok ur really confusing
but u dumped him so its ur fault for letting go
and if u still like him then why u dumped him
jzzz...... get ur head straighten out
2007-03-22 13:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Death Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah there - so you bff is NOT stealing your boyfriend? Your details contradict your question.
so they don't feel comfortable around each other. How do you need help?
2007-03-22 12:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋