I am a 19 year old college guy and still a virgin. Is it worth it to lose my virginity to my gf or should I wait still?
2007-03-22 05:13:07 · 13 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please answer both questions.
2007-03-22 05:18:17 · update #1
honestly....
I'm almost 28 and still a damn proud virgin!
but that's the different between our culture, in my asian culture being a virgin until your wedding day is a honourable thing.
but need not to worry, being a virgin is not that bad. actually, there's nothing different. just remember, you need to be responsible to any of your action.
2007-03-22 05:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by jeung_gorgeous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't just jump into bed for the sake of jumping into bed with someone. You need to do it when the time is right and it is with the woman you love and will be with forever. Once you lose it, it is gone forever and cant get it back. I was 30 when I lost mine and I wish I waited a little longer for I wish I could've gave it to the man I am dating now.
You will know when the time is right. If you are waiting till you are married then wait. Don't let anyone push you. A girl should respect your wishes just like you should respect theirs.
2007-03-22 12:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 17 and im still with the guy and dont regret anything. im still with him and im turning 19 soon. i think its cool that ur waiting. if the moment is there and it looks right and feels right then go for it. and if it dosnt turn out well at the end. then oh well. we all make mistakes. its a learning experience and we all have to go through it.
2007-03-22 12:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by jordon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 16 dont do it u will regret it in the future it was a stupid move for me in the past i wish i could get it back its not worth it being a virgin is being sacred and respect for yourself wait still because u have alot of time and chances when your really ready
2007-03-22 12:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur ready and she is then go for it
but if not then wait
I lost mine at the age of 12 and im 15 now hehe
im a naughty girl I know but my bf and i are really kinky in bed
2007-03-22 13:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Death Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I disagree with the person above me. That is the theory alot of young teenagers go on, and it gets them STD's and a baby. I think you should love the person and want to share that experience with that girl. Do not have sex because your in college and its about time. And congratulations on being one of the few guys who wants meaning for sex. Remember there is only one first time.
2007-03-22 12:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait...i lost mine at 14, and that's one of very very very few things i regret in my life...although, watch a couple pornos just so when the time does come (no pun intended) you know what you're doin. But definately wait till it's right.
2007-03-22 12:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im 14 and a virgin, so i gues my info won't be much use!! but i'd say wait till your sure.. you dont want any silly regretments!! R.E.S.P.E.C.T to you for waiting this long!!!!!
2007-03-22 12:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Phoebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 13, what's the problem?
2007-03-22 14:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your ready go for it. but i knoe this is cleche but go with your gut feeling
2007-03-22 12:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ladybugisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋