i dont have a problem with black people, but the crowd he's been hanging around has been influencing my daughter, i mean he comes around my house flaunting his money, and showing me his fancy cars and his parents new house and stuff!!! and then his friends bring their filthy language around... saying bad words like "caviar" and "escargo" i dont want my daughter hanging around these filthy rich folk... how do i tell her to stop hanging around him?
2007-03-22 05:11:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to bring it to her attention.........that includes all the negative things that you see with actual validity.
Make sure that the negative things you bring to your argument are factual and not opinion(opinion not good enough).
Furthermore ......if you are just trying to make up lame excuses for being racist ....then that makes you a coward.
Because if race is truly your reason why you do not want your daughter to see the black guy anymore. You should just tell her.
2007-03-22 05:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now Look here, caviar is the name of fish eggs, these are considered a delicacy in some countries it's not a cuss word, escargo is actually snail that is cooked, french ppl consider this a delicacy, he might in fact be getting your kid to try new and exotic foods, yeah and if she finds out what escargo is she probably might not want it.
2. you need to trust your child that she will do the things you taught her when she was being brought up.
3. whats the difference whether he's black or white? would you rather let her go out with a white guy who only wants to take advantage of her, is broke, and could probavly influence her to treat you badly or cuss u out!
what u should be worried about is her finding a guy(no matter what colour he is) that won't turn the two of you's relationship into something from an episode of Jerry Springer!
2007-03-22 05:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by kamarla_phillips06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont understand the problem so hes rich big deal. if hes not treating her wrong then it shouldnt be a problem. also caviar is fish eggs its a delicasy same with escargo which is french for snails. there not bad words. u may not have a problem with black ppl but u are racis towards wealthy ppl which is the same thing. if your daughters not getting into trouble then i dont see the big deal. would u prefer her to hang out with people who do drugs and think trying to commit suicide is fun.
2007-03-22 05:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a mother?? It sounds to me that you don't want whats best for your daughter. You can't appreciate things other people have just because you don't have them. There is nothing "filthy" about anything that you have described in this entire question. Being a mother myself, I understand what is like to have to strive for nice things, but honestly lady...get a grip with yourself. Are you sure that race isn't your BIG issue here? I'm not sure the age of your daughter, but I would be utterly overwhelmed that my child would have a wonderful future with nice belongings. What's really so wrong with that? I'm a bit confused in the whole ordeal...
2007-03-22 05:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Punkie Brewster 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all how old is your daughter? If she is underage then you just step up to the plate and sy "hey, guess what? I don't like your so called friends and you aren't alowed to see them anymore." If she is older, then I'm sorry, you can't tell her anything any more. However, if you did raise her with an open mind and an open heart, then have a sit down talk with her only and tell her how feel. If she is mature enough, then she will take all you say to heart...good luck!
2007-03-22 05:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by globalystic1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy for your daughter. Just because he is rich doesn't make him a bad person. Who the heck cares if hes rich as long as he treats your daughter well and cares about her. And look on the bright side; at least you know if they ever get married than his parents will have enough money to pay for the wedding and you won't need to worry about it!
2007-03-22 05:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is YOUR daughter. but show her the right respect. Talk to her about. Maybe talk to him if also. Apparently, he doesnt respect you to be using foul language around the you, the mother. But seriously, make sure that she knows that your just doing the for her own good. cause you love her
2007-03-22 05:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Blax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter is happy with her boyfriend, then let her be happy. Let her experience something that she has never tried in her life. But if you really want to, talk to her about your feeling but don't tell her that you don't want her to be around them. No matter what you say, especially if you say no, she'll find ways to be with them.
Kristine
2007-03-22 05:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just to let u know those arent bad words and if u think rich ppl are flithy thats not true cuz i am not flithy and my dads not i mean hell just cuz he makes 20 mil a year and i make 6 mil a year doesnt mean **** if anything ur a horrible mom for trying to stop her
2007-03-22 07:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by james d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C´mon you are the most racist human being (if I may assume you´re one) I have ever seen in my entire life! Get a grip!
2007-03-22 05:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Gabriel G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋