i had b/f i really loved me and he loved me too maybe he still does but anyway,we understood that we cannot be happy that much when we r together coz he is suspicious and when he go to his homE (in another country) he just thinks that who i am with and what i am doing here and he thinks tat i wanna have another friends but it's not true coz i'm loyal to him now i think it's better for me to break up or else i have to make him trust me please tell me how to forget him if i seprate
2007-03-22 05:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by N0t Known Never Ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never forget anybody just let him go and live for today. Put his pictures away and move on maybe start a hobby.
2007-03-22 05:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by The Captain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a jealous person and he will be jealous no matter what you do. Being with a person like that is very difficult and you are only asking for a life of unhappiness if you stay with him. The way to get over him is to imagine if his jealousy went on forever and how unhappy you would be if it did. You will know that it's the right thing.
2007-03-22 12:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know jealousy is pretty common. But maybe you should tell him that if he can't trust you then you should break up. I mean if he really loved you and you really loved him you wouldn't cheat or even think about cheating on the other one. And you wouldn't have doubts about the other on cheating on you. You need to let him know this. Get it out in the open, let him know how you are feeling.
Hope I helped.
2007-03-22 12:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by bored_rena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him really want this to work, your b/f is going to have to build up his self esteem. Talking, counseling, and reading materials that address this issue will help. This is very common among very young people. If this is the case, it will cease in time. If your b/f refuses to get help, you might as well give it up. Good luck.
2007-03-22 12:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by megofish2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are Territorial, going to another country, are there old girlfriends there ? Best of both worlds, sex with you, go to home country, sex with old girlfriends you will never see. Time heals all things and thoughts
2007-03-22 12:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is still love why break up? Work a little harder at try to resolve things and communicate with him about the way you feel...
2007-03-22 12:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny there are other fish in the see. some people spend thier whole life looking for the right one. and that dosnt sound like the right one. for one its long distance. from my experience they never realy work out. even if you live a half hour away. for two sound like to me he dosnt trust you. so... if it was up to me i'd dump his *** before he beets you to it. show him who's boss... lol hope this helps some!
2007-03-22 12:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by jordon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the trust thing is just never going to workout - rather get out while you can
2007-03-22 12:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Immortal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋