im 22 (almost 23) and have never had a gf, date, or even a kiss...and at this point in my life i think it goes without saying that is just odd at the least...
i freeze up around women...no matter what or how hard i try not to. my personality shuts down..and i become this quiet aloof BORE HOLE! seriously....
anyone got any solutions to this??? its like bein an alcoholic...it has like this grip on me...
2007-03-22 04:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes..im a guy btw....this isnt my username
2007-03-22 05:01:42 · update #1
Hey, if u freeze up no big, remember what ur teachers tip was for public speaking, imagine them in something dorky(not in underwear as u might just end up saying or doing something pertaining to sex and as a female if i just met a guy for the 1st time and he mentions the s word i am gonna bitchslap that pervert!) talk to your female friends or your moms, or even your coworkers or schoolmates and see if they have any tips, its always good for a guy to get things from a woman's point of view when it comes to interacting with women, do this and i guarantee u'll be girlfriend certified.
2007-03-22 05:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by kamarla_phillips06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that odd? I never had a boyfriend, date or kiss until I was 23. It's okay, try to focus on other aspects of your life right now. However, if you really do want a girlfriend, have you tried online dating? There are a few good dating sites out there that I think are respectable.
2007-03-22 12:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude, go to a bar, wait till 2:30am and find the drunkest girl you can, that way you dont have to wait till 3 when the street corners open up, and you dont have to pay for it!
2007-03-22 12:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don,t believe that one. I mean that your a guy.
2007-03-22 12:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋