I gave my girl fren( unofficial ) a soft toy. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?We still mail each other once every week... But she came back but didnt inform me..But 2day she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time.What does this mean?
2007-03-22 04:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesn't want to see you but does want to talk to you. sorry friend it does not look good.
about the toy. she took it because you gave it to her and maybe she thinks it was for her use when you are not there. since she is an unofficial girlfriend she doesn't feel the need to tell you when shes back or see you right away. maybe you can talk to her about an official relationship.
2007-03-22 05:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her as she has treated you, this maybe will spark her interest most women and some men want what they feel they can't have, make her think you have lost some interest, this could make her do a complete turn around if not im very sorry shes not the one for you,if you want a pen pal from another country talk to me I have access to very fine women whom I know because my Wife is a filipina,and she has to many sisters haha.But even though I struck Gold getting my wife there are lots of gold diggers out there anywhere you go, so look for a girl who is genuine and true, doesnt look good as far as the girl your with ,my rule is if a woman blows me off in anyway I am better than that I want one that wants me equally, trust me there are plenty out there far more diserving.Anyway my advice is do an about face and ignore her and see if that makes her turn around and give you attention.
2007-03-22 12:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by albert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two have spent so much time apart that she feels she doesn't know you anymore. Maybe she has changed and doesn't want the same things in life that she used to. I can't tell you for sure what is going on in her head because I'm not her. But I can tell you that it doesn't look promising from this point right now. If you want to try and get back with her then be her friend first and let her know that you just want her to be happy no matter what. Keep talking to her until you find out where you stand with her and where she stands in her own life. If by then it looks grim...move on so you don't continuously hurt yourself. I'm sorry for your heart...Good luck:)
2007-03-22 12:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by globalystic1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compadre, I am here to tell you that your unofficial girlfriend is just what you said she was. UNOFFICIAL. She took her soft toy with her, big deal. She came back and you didn't hear from her. Now you hear from her and she wants you to go online, what she is doing my friend is playing you. Tell her you didn't appreciate that she gave you no time when she came home and you think it best to end the relationship.
2007-03-22 12:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and whenever I did something like that it was because I valued that guy for his qualities but I was not sure that I wanted something more. Guys that are nice may look that they can become too sticky and we are afraid of a guy that becomes too much dependent on us. Just my opinion.
2007-03-22 12:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she took the toy to remember you. if you were not afficialy dateing the she sees you as a friend, nothing more. sorry, but try to get to know her again and then ask her out.
2007-03-22 12:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means she wants to talk to you, talk to her and find out what she has to say. Tell her how you've been feeling while she's been away.
2007-03-22 12:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The toy's better than you? lol jk...
I think you should talk to her about that.
2007-03-22 12:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a freak and is wating ur time and energy
2007-03-22 12:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋