How do i know if a boy is using me?

Question

I have a boyfriend but he has sort of a "player" reputation. He's gone out with a couple of my friends and they think he's using me to get popular. I'm pretty young so only a few people in my grade makeout and they think that he's using my to be popular and makeout and kiss everything. I've kissed him but i refused to mke out, He asks me every once in awhile but i always have the same answer.How do i know if he really likes me?

i'm 12 years old x)

Answer 1

Ask Him what you feel about him if you dont confront him you will never find the true answer

Answer 2

You two are still young, and even if you were older - don't ever do something someone makes you uncomfortable doing, and if you feel used now, trust your instincts and just let him move on to the next girl that he'll try all that with. You wouldn't want her reputation now, would you? Save yourself, because kisses are more special than some spit-swapping make-out session that he's hoping would lead to other things. Just be with your friends and have fun - maybe you will find a guy that will be your friend and respect you, then maybe he would be worthy enough to be your boyfriend. Till then, be picky and don't let boys have their way against your will.

Answer 3

It seems like you already know the answer to this question. He wants you to make out with him so that he can tell all his little friends that he got you to make out with him because he's so cool. If you don't want to do it then you shouldn't. If you're popular and you know that he wants to be more popular then you should ask him some questions. If it still seems like he is using you...get out. Make sure he's not lying to you also. I'm proud of you fro sticking ot your standards.

Answer 4

belive ur feeling cause the girls r so senstive in these stuff pls try 2 b precious and hard taken 4 him try 2 have the ability 2 say noooooooooooooooooo even under the presure of love
like this he will b like an open book 4 u (take care )

Answer 5

Don't get stuck on this guy, you have plenty of time to pick and choose who you want to be with, the fact that your asking this question indicates that this is not going to work out for you. Have respect for yourself, don't let yourself be used, it will start a pattern over your whole life, start now with confidence in yourself and learn healthy relationships early.

Answer 6

Forget about him. If you're too young to be making out, then you probably don't need a boyfriend. You'll meet someone when you are older and you won't have to ask if he's using you, you'll know it. You have friends, go out with them and have fun, you are only young once!!

Answer 7

Guys like him are a dime a dozen! Tell him your saving yourself for marriage and if he is still interested you'll know he cares but only if he is being attentive to you, not looking else where and appreciates the fact that you have morals and are not willing to sacrifice them to peer pressure. Good for you!!

Answer 8

lmao....How old are?...sounds like ya'll are about 14 or 15 years old...a boyfiend never asks a g-friend to make out ...it just happens...you don't get popular by dating/hooking up with someone...it just happens...if you have so much doubt about this kid than just leave him and find someone better...your not going to marry him right?...there's hundreds of billions of guys out there explore be happy...have fun and don't let anyone take advantage of you...you take advantage of them...lol...

Answer 9

see what you have to do is use a test question something like what if i told you i dint want to have sex till marriage ask him how would he feel and tell him he couldnt have sex with anyone else neither see how response to that facial expression and everything dont be blind to it neither

Answer 10

you'll know when he tells you he loves you