I am confused... I asked her this just recently... "are you coming back" or "will we be together again". Our relationship broke down because of her faithlesseyes................W... lived together for 9 months. I seen the good and seen the bad. I was faithfull and supported her for 9 months for she had no job and she during that time was like I was married to her. Then the last 3 months of our relationship she found a job and faithlesseyes steped in................
Steve
2007-03-22 04:55:18 · 24 answers · asked by designnews440 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is affirmative in answer, though the reply is clothed in negative wordings.
2007-03-25 21:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My question is why can't she say yes?
because she wants her cake and she wants to eat it too.
I remember a time when I felt that way.
The truth is that deep down there I didn't really want to say yes, but I wasn't sure that saying no was the right thing to do or I wasn't strong enough to say it (I don't know really), but in my opinion she just wants both worlds.
Also, you shouldn't have been living with her without being married. You weren't married, so there was no commitment. Did she say "till death do us part"? Probably not. So then her being "unfaithful" doesn't mean squat, because both of you were messing around.
2007-03-22 12:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! She is dancing around the truth instead of giving you a straight answer. Sounds like you are a really decent guy. I hope you move on and find a girl you love who treats you well and loves you back. Stay away from this one. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-03-22 12:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Grandma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a chump, dude. She's playing you. Remember, there is someone out there for you who wants to love you, be faithful to you and be your woman. You let this woman walk all over you, and she showed her contempt for you by being with other men.
First, don't be a doormat. Don't let a woman treat you like that. You let her know that you'd support her by your actions and she took advantage of you.
Next, get strong and be strong. A strong man will attract a strong woman. You need a relationship based on mutual respect and attraction.
2007-03-22 12:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by marianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are difficult enough without the innuendos. But if I am deciphering this correctly - You have been a worthy supporter and now she doesn't want to hurt you or to make you feel like you have been taken advantage of but in her heart she is leaving you. Slowly but surely.
2007-03-22 12:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what she is really feeling, is that she may still have feelings for you, but not the same that you're feeling for her. She's keeping you on the back burner in case she needs someone to run to...that someone being you because you'd see right through it and take her back. Don't stress yourself out over this...move on, she has! Her feelings are not genuine for you. You'll only get hurt in the long run...don't be that naive guy that she has you being right now. Situations like this are one sided...it's not worth it.
2007-03-22 12:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Punkie Brewster 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming you mean faithlessness....that being said if she was unfaithful to you then why would you want her to come back, she would just do it again sooner or later. Don't sit around waiting on her, go out and get yourself a life.
2007-03-22 11:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it must ease to believe the lye than true she just want some 1 to help her and now she have ajob she think she can do with out you get out of it
2007-03-22 12:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she was using you. so when she got back on her feet she felt like she didnt need your support anymore. dump her. Sounds like you need her more than she needs you, and an unbalanced relationship never works out. sorry =(
2007-03-22 11:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-26 11:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by geyamala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like shes coming back to you. congratulations, i think....
NO! find a new one, this one sounds like too much trouble. and if you're a good guy steve, which it seems you are... find someone that deserves you.
2007-03-22 11:58:27 · answer #11 · answered by SiC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋