Hey, Why are aquarius men so mysterious? How are you supposed to know they care for u when the never show it ?

Question

I am a leo and he is obviously an aquarius. He never shows his feelings. He is withdrawn and his emotions are reserved. I care for him so much but he does not reciprocate back.. i get sad sometimes and often feel he " does not like me"... am i being silly... or is it just his nature. Oh and another thing he never ever gets jealous.. what's up with that.... ??? A million other guys would buy me the moon with all the stars in it... but this special person is so different..and that is what i love so much. He is unique..how can i get him to open up .... or reveal what's on his mind... thanks a million :)

What actually makes you aqua men fall in love ?

Answer 1

Sometimes, leaving an aquarius and showing them you mean business will open their eyes. You should be treated better than this and you obviously crave better treatment. Tell him you are sorry but this relationship just isn't working for you. Then walk away. If he chases you down [which may take some time] then he will become a much more affectionate person. If he lets you go and never comes back, consider yourself blessed. Find a man who will show his feelings.

Answer 2

I am an Aquarian male... so maybe I can answer from a first-hand p.o.v.
Most of the people that answered have the gist of the situation. It's not that Aquarian males are self-centered (I don't think I am, anyway), it's just that we tend to take the things we have for granted. But when we are without the things we want, we want them more than ever.
As for the jealousy dilemma... I would be willing to bet he gets jealous. But maybe he thinks that if he showed it, you would think he's overposessive and being an ******. So he just holds back.
It's almost the same thing with showing affection. Even though you two are already together, he doesn't want to be overbearing or come on too strong. So he doesn't.
So I would suggest threatening him to leave first. If that doesn't work, do the walk-away idea that somebody else suggested. See what happens.

Hope this may be of some help to you. Good luck!

Answer 3

My husband started doing this after we were married. He is an aquarius and I'm a libra. I wanted him to be more romantic with me and more respectful toward my feelings. It got so bad at some points that I felt like I didn't matter and that I was not good enough for him. I felt alone and miserable all the time. Then I got pregnant. I was happy, but still felt alone. I kept thinking, "I am going to raise this baby alone unless I can open his eyes to a new perspective." I basically sit him down face to face and told him how I felt. Alone, pregnant and miserable. I told him that if he truly cared for me and loved me that he would be more romantic towards me and show me how he cares. I then said that if things didn't change, the baby and I was bailing. I didn't want to do that but I had to. I told him that I would give him a month. But, I then lost the baby two months afterwards. He has changed completely. He does what I ask him to, he is always telling me he loves me, he does dishes and cooks without me asking him to, he takes me on dates and is just a changed man. Lesson 101: Communication is everything. If someone loves you enough, they can change. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well, I am a aquarius female and that is just our nature. We trust you until you give us a valid reason not to trust you. And our emotions run so deep and strong we're in a way afraid to show that side of us. But watch him closely, he is showing you in subtle ways. What ever you do, dont put a wedge or pressure on the relationship. Take it day by day.

Answer 5

Maybe he shows he cares for you in a different way than most of the guys you have dated before. Enjoy having a mysterious man. He will open up in his own time.

Answer 6

If you want to feel where the words come from Dylan, no one expresses them better than he. Even though the Byrds do a good version, it was done more for the radio and the ears. I hope Mr. Tabourine Man does not go for long, sometimes we all need a break. take care dave

Answer 7

Ok, so be careful what you wish for from the aloof aquarian. Jealousy and emotions can be very subtle in the beginning. I have to agree with some of the posts...I think it takes a few come to Jesus' meetings in order for the walls to crumble for the aloof aquarian and for them to get to a comfort level to be able to really share their emotions. After that....look out, it's a whole different world.

Answer 8

It will be hard to open him up, cause aquiarian men are usually only thinking about themselves. They don't get jealous, because something in their egos or heads tell them they can get and have whom ever they want. So why fret over the one you have at the present time?

He'll open up as long as you make him center of attention and make him feel attractive.

Answer 9

YEAH.. =] we are soo the same im a leo and he is an aquarius. but we are so different with our situation,aquarious aren't like that though they are secretive. you have to tell him what you really feel like heart-to-heart talk with him.

spare sometime with him, cause its really not gonna work if you'll just let him be like that okay? and i think he is jealous,he just dont want to show it to you.

though it doesnt really answers your worries and questions but hope i help you one way or another. thanks & God bless, take good care,ok?..=)

Answer 10

my man is an aquarius and allways tells me he loves me, and shows it very openly. even if we are arguing he will not leave for work without elling me he loves me and kisses me while im still asleep. as for jealousy, he isnt and that is a sign of security. most jealous people are insecure. so it isnt about being an aquarius. its how they just are.