I have been single for less than a month, and I was pretty hurt over my breakup. Then, two weeks ago, this guy I had a crush on for a long time expressed interest in me. Now we've been hanging out a ton and I am really getting to know him.
He is so freakin sweet and fun and I am very attracted to him. It's all mutual too, but I am wondering if these feelings are real or it's just a rebound? Is there any way to tell the difference for certain?
2007-03-22 04:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by mistaken4sane 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until you figure it out, please be honest with this guy about your doubts. He sounds very nice and you don't want him to get hurt. Let him know you are in a very vulnerable place right now and he should proceed with caution!
2007-03-22 04:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by mykidsrsaints 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time. A "mended" heart takes about as long as the years one has been together with someone before a breakup. "Rebounding," comes to try to "fill" up that "gap" left a person misses of not having the other person around. I should know, I have had "4" marriages, this last one lasting over 22 years. The second and third were on the "rebound."
2007-03-22 11:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Theban 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through the same thing. I left a man of an 18 year relationship and found someone so special. I truly believe I am in love with him and he says the same about me. We are on the same page about everything and we communicate. communication is key. All I can say is follow your gut. Mine said go for it and I am. If by some chance it doesn't work out I will thank GOD for the time I had with him. Good Luck.
2007-03-22 11:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by karens lovinlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me sis was seeing sum1 and she broke up with him and a day later he asked me, my 3 friends and my enemy out and we all sed no and then he asked me sis out again. That's a rebound what i just mentioned. But sumtimes i get confused if it is real, maybe if he werent seeing sum1 and then he asked you out then that might be for real other than that im out of ideas. Hope i helped.
2007-03-22 11:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Evertongrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell by being totally honest with yourself. You know the answer! Good luck.
2007-03-22 11:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check in again after your 50th wedding anniversary . . . .
2007-03-22 11:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time wil tell, keep doing what ur doing with him and you will find out yourself
2007-03-22 11:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can tell! No one can tell you what you feel.
2007-03-22 11:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Yoyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever it is, just enjoy your life!
i'm betting that you're a teenager, you're only young once baby... relax and enjoy.
2007-03-22 11:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by jeung_gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rebound. you should give it time
2007-03-22 11:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋