cheaters get upset when someone cheats on them...
2007-03-22 04:38:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
For the same reason thieves get mad when they're ripped off.
2007-03-22 04:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being promiscuous doesn't mean you're a cheater. You can have sex with as many people as you want before you enter into a relationship but then stop all of that and be faithful once you're committed to someone. Promiscuity and infidelity are two seperate issues and one isn't truly indicative of the other.
2007-03-22 11:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because any cheater is tempted by satan.So , it results they are selfish , they want you as a slave...not enjoying..I will be frighten if I were them..because I would know ..I will be punished..But they think they are ok, with their satisfaction, and they don't think they will get hurt.But I think that cheating them back is not a good idea.
The best thing we can do is either to be as moral as we can ..and honour moral people and letting the cheaters see it, how best we are suitable to moral persons..or just leave them if they aren't going to stop.
But there is another thing to do..to love them ..and see if they are going to stop.Then they won't be able to cheat again and they will be vulnerable.
2007-03-22 11:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a form of guilt. They tend to project their behavior on the other person and then accuse them of being the same. They get upset because cheating is an insult that says you aren't good enough for me.
2007-03-22 11:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by ɹɐǝɟsuɐs Blessed Cheese Maker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really promiscuous, but I never have a boyfriend, so it's not cheating. I wouldn't get mad either if someone cheated on me. That's Christian and stupid.
2007-03-22 11:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander, it's a bit of a pot calling the kettle black situation, sometimes we don't like people to do as we do but prefer them to do as we say...how is that for a nice little collection of homilies or wise folk sayings?
2007-03-22 11:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by CHEESUS GROYST 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they dont have Jesus in their hearts. If they did, they wouldnt be cheaters. Everyone knows that real Christians never cheat, lie, steal or commit any sins against God!
VLR
2007-03-22 11:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Athiests_are_dumb 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Promiscuous and monogamous are two different things.
Two wrongs really don't make a right either.
But I really don't understand why they get upset.
2007-03-22 11:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by photogrl262000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they want to justify there own shortcomings. They think by getting mad at the other person it justifies them for cheating
that is my opinion
2007-03-22 11:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Rock'n'Rob♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they do tend to be very insecure , which is one of the reasons they cheat in the first place
its a vicious circle
they are cheated on once , they go on to cheat on many , then if someone cheats on them they go on to cheat more
but i agree with acid
why are you asking this here in R&S ?
2007-03-22 11:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋