Need some idea to spice it up in the bed room that does?

Question

want to spice it up and rock his world with out adding any one else in to equation

we have tried anal but he is so big it wouldnt work out

What is the rusty trumbone?

Answer 1

ropes, lingerie, and food.

Answer 2

First hope your 18 or over lol. Now there are a number of things you can do from lingerie to costumes to nothing at all. You can use edible body paint. Handcuffs toys, role play, bondage, blindfolds. Personally I like to use friut whipped, cream,a little role playing. Example, have your man dress up in all black like a cat burglar (ski mask or cap, gloves the whole nine) leave your front door unlocked while you lay there helpless in a sexy see through teddy or nothing. Make sure you have some thing handy like the band for a robe so he can tie you up. I also like sex dice and cards Dice that says lick or kiss certain body parts. Get a video camera and let him watch you do him instead of some strange porno bimbo. That always gets my man a hard on.
I dont know how you feel about oral sex but all men love it and if you do it good enough you can keep him locked down and willing to do whatever you tell him. He wont want anyone else involved but you my dear!! Here is a tip, if you go down use ice cream or ice cubes. They love that.
Hope this helps
Nicole

Answer 3

The toy shop is a good one. Not everyone is into porn, but if you trust each other sometimes it's fun to watch together during sex. Other ideas are having mirrors in the room, sexy music playing (I burned a special CD just for the bedroom), and dirty talk. I also think being shaved makes it so much more fun and looks hot (that goes for the man too!). Go get some sexy stripper clothes and surprise him. Oh, and it's not for everyone, but anal sex will definitiely without question rock his world!

Answer 4

I would suggest going shopping together for sex toys ,lingerie or massage oils/ lotions for a sensual massage.Another suggestion would be to try role playing...try meeting him out for a drinks and dressed to kill,and pick him up instead of vice versa while pretending that you're someone else,you could even go to a motel/hotel to switch it up. I don't know what type of budget you're working with but they have remote control panties/thongs and what you would do is wear them out at in a social setting and have him operate the remote...it's a little risque and suspenseful because you don't know when he's going to press the button.No matter what you decide to do,remember to always have fun with it! Good Luck

Answer 5

Think about it, when having sex most people are thinkin of ensuring the other partner( in most cases women) get to orgasm, doing what is decent/acceptable to the partner and many other such things. Its like you're reading from a script. This is bad sex.

Eliminate the goal-posts, just have sex-enjoy it, savor it. Its good that both of you get to orgasm but for sex to be fun you should not have to strive to achieve anything- let it be random good old sex.

Let sex be fun. Joke about it, tease each other, laugh-that's the only way to ensure great sex.
(I've written about this on my blog)

Answer 6

Sorta generic answer b/c it's vague, but go toy shopping with each other. Buy 2 things each: one for you and one you think the other might like. And go find out how you both did.

Answer 7

ask him his fantasy that doesnt involve another person and act it out for him do it as a suprise dont everplan.

Answer 8

ok this is what u do. give him the best dome ever, and do stuff other girls wouldnt. like let him put it up ur butt.

Answer 9

seriously, try the "rusty trombone" he'll love it