As a Christian woman, is it ok to give men your telephone number if they want to talk?

Question

I find it difficult to cultivate good healthy relationships with men.

Answer 1

Bible says in

Matthew 6:33

"But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you"

Remember look for God first, follow Him and talk to him about this situation and he will put everything in place
Ask him to guide you and take control of all situations.
Put it all on his hands and he will show you the way.
don't get desperate for God has the man of your life already waithing for you and when the time comes you'll shall be together. Trust in him and forget about it (for you already put it in his hands) and go on with your every day life. Be your self if they don't like the way you are than they might as well be gone.

Giving guys your number to talk to is not bad
just as long as you don't have bad intentions
open up: get to know them
as long as you don't sin, it's ok

Remember: if sex is what they want, talk to him (wait untill you get married) and don't fall in to his game. God shall always come first not sex.

Answer 2

Sure but don't be surprised if they want to do more than talk.

Christian or not we all have the same urges and temptations.

Most men don't care much for conversation and many will only talk to women to make them happy. If your looking for a girlfriend with XY chromosomes be careful, because most men don't want to be treated that way, even good Christian gentlemen.

If you want a healthy relationship with a man try to understand that a man's POV and agenda is different than yours. Ask yourself what's in this relationship for him? Be honest, be up front, even be blunt. If relationships don't work both ways they don't work at all.

To your own self be true but maybe the kind of relationship you want with a man isn't the kind of relationship most men want to be in. If you haven't be able to have a healthy relationship with a man maybe you should explore your expectations before handing out your phone number. You're just liable to find the kind of guy who'll hurt and abuse you instead of love and cherish you.

Answer 3

I would say so. As long as its just talking.